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    Red face Met new hb8 without expecting it, need advice on how to proceed

    After giving a speech in school I was approached by numerous girls at a bar who just came up and began talking to me about what I had said. One of them was this girl that had previously caught my eye.

    We literally talked for like 45 min, I was making sure to Kino etc. We were literally the last people at the bar and were kicked out. As we were leaving I did a Number Close. We then continued talking about school and how she has a professor that I use to have. Before we said goodbye she told me to make sure to add her on fb. I asked her for her last name and she told me that she had put it on my phone already. Then we said goodbye and she gave me a hug and said that I was a really nice guy.

    I waited two days and added her on fb today. I really like her but don't know how to proceed. Classes start on Monday so I was going to text her Monday evening with "how was your first day?" Then, towards the end of the week ask her to join me on some activity?

    I'm afraid of coming on too strong if I ask her out before seeing her in school again or before having another convo with her. Any advice?

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    Default Re: Met new hb8 without expecting it, need advice on how to proceed

    Just send her something flirty in a few days, don't overthink it my man, just be confident and you'll be good

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    Default Re: Met new hb8 without expecting it, need advice on how to proceed

    Like the previous poster said. don't overthink the situation. Just send her a flirty text and see how she responds. Calibrate on that response. If she's very flirty back then go for the meet up, if she isn't flirty then create more attraction and comfort/rapport first before asking for the meet up again.

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    Default Re: Met new hb8 without expecting it, need advice on how to proceed

    Then we said goodbye and she gave me a hug and said that I was a really nice guy.
    Sounds like someone had an attracted girl and didn't take the...build more attraction, once you see the indicators kiss her at least.escalate!!

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    Default Re: Met new hb8 without expecting it, need advice on how to proceed

    you can start with just a simple "hay!" if you gonna start with texting first, if she responds be funny and flirty and make sure she enjoys and if she dont respond wait at least 24hrs and send "i miss you" i know sounds cheezy but it will grab her attention and she is most likely to respond no matter how she responds you can build attraction from there but if she still dont respond call it a off and move on. Dont take texting soo far ask her on a date be direct and ask like "come hang out with me tomorrow " and seal the deal. EASY
    Nice guys don't finish last, boring guys does.

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    Default Re: Met new hb8 without expecting it, need advice on how to proceed

    Update:

    I sent her a flirty text and then we talked a little and I didn't send her another text until a few days later to invite her to hang out with my group of friends. She said she couldn't but stated: "but next time id love to!" I didn't text her again.

    Yesterday I made a fb event for my b-day party and she was one of the people I invited. Well today I get a random text from her telling me happy birthday. My b-day isn't until next week.

    So I teased her about it and she claimed that she thought it was tonight and that she was "about to show up at my place." So I invite her over anyway. Then she told me she was meeting some friends at 10pm but that "we should def. meet up."

    I'm literally about to just ignore her texts. What do you guys think? I think she is messing with me and has no interest. She obviously lied about thinking my party was today since she already had planned to meet her friends.

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    Default Re: Met new hb8 without expecting it, need advice on how to proceed

    In your dynamic just let her know you had to be somewhere else and go for the meetup later.
    She was testing you when she wished you happy birthday even though attraction was involved sort of.from now on let asking her out be on your own terms as in talk to her get a bit engaged and follow through.state place and time.

    inviting her over your place is not bad but someplace outside would be best now..if you may..


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