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Thread: Help with a BFD for her boyfriend being paranoid

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    Default Help with a BFD for her boyfriend being paranoid

    Spoke to this girl last night who I've been speaking to for 4 months she has a bf for 2 years... She told me last night her bf is paranoid about us and he wants a open life with her and he wants to see what she texts me and he cant get the thought out of his head when he saw on her phone a kiss from me to her. she thinks he would be paranoid even stuff wasn't going on between us... Can someone help me with a great BFD for being paranoid ? I don't think she wants to leave him.

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    Default Re: Help with a BFD for her boyfriend being paranoid

    what i would do is play into that.

    play it cool, as if you dont care but also make sure you hit that paranoid spot.

    maybe something like: " haha i hope i didnt get you into any trouble, but whoa he wants to read your texts? thats a little extreme dont you think."

    im sure more advanced PUAs can help you out more. that was just my advice :P However i think this is a good spot to be in.

    Good Luck.

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    Default Re: Help with a BFD for her boyfriend being paranoid

    Lol well he is right to be paranoid. Bf destroyer is only is she is using her bf as a way of friend zoning you I believe. So you're good because from what I read, she doesn't have any resistance and it doesn't seem as if he's a threat to you so you don't need it.
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    Default Re: Help with a BFD for her boyfriend being paranoid

    Thanks guys,

    She texted back hi baby I'm at his family's house for lunch with a kiss.

    whats your recommendations to text back I really want to hit the paranoid spot and disqualify him any suggestions ?

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    Default Re: Help with a BFD for her boyfriend being paranoid

    Before I go into the tip on what to do next, you need to keep this in mind: you shouldn't run BF Destroyer 24/7. The interaction between you two should be fun and entertaining. Your goal is to figure out her man's weaknesses and embody them in yourself as strengths. For example, he's paranoid about his girl chatting with other guys. You really shouldn't give a damn about who she texts and not. Be relaxed, and let her live her life.

    With that said, I would send something along the lines of slight BF Destroyer, but humorous as well. I would say something like this:

    "Ruh roh, you know you'll get in trouble for messaging me ya little rascal "
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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