I think opinion openers work if they’re done in a very congruent and it’s appropriate to the situation.
But one of my favorites is by using the words: “Friendly Face”
Let me explain.
I’ll walk over to the girls in the above picture, smile and say something like: “Yall have some friendly faces” followed by something like “that is so damn refreshing to see. Every other pretty girl in here looks like she’s standing around making fun of other girls….wait. You weren’t doing that too were you?”
But the KEY is the “Friendly Faces” and it’s BECAUSE it’s a little confusing what you’re saying. You didn’t say they have “pretty” faces…NOR did you say they look friendly. You described their faces with an adjective normally used to describe their personality.
The fact that they have to think about what you said is what works so well. You’re complimenting their vibe.
Since they’ve most likely never heard a compliment like this before, you’re now an original. Congratulations. You’re one step closer.
Now tell them that it’s great to see girls out having fun and you just wanted to see if you could absorb some of those good vibes. (If I have to explain why this Sh1t works so well and you can’t imagine how it makes the conversation flow…we’ve got some work to do. LOL)
Now you’re IN. It’s a perfect time to show them a crazy “little” magic trick that will turn their friendly faces into astonished, curious and attracted faces. LOL