I went to this dance last night. This was a dance organized by an internet group and is an ongoing kind of dance. Anyway, here's what I saw. There is a woman who I was emailing a few times. We agreed to hug each other when we first met. After that, I didn't really do much and talked to other people. Anyway, at one point I saw this one guy talk to her. I wasn't paying attention the whole time so keep that in mind. This same woman at one point sat on this guys lap. I also thought I saw another guy slap her across the face. Weird I know but that's what I thought I saw out of the corner of my eye. So anyway, a little later she danced with the guy who's lap she was sitting on. His hand was very close to her ass(the top part of it). At one point later on, before I got a chance to dance with her I saw this guy grab her by the hand and pull her out. I have no idea where they went or what they did but I didn't see them for the rest of the night. On the plus side I did wind up with a woman's phone number(not hers of course). I did send her an email but I didn't ask directly about the guy.