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Thread: Here is my conversation issue...

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    Default Here is my conversation issue...

    I can talk to girls, that's never been a problem. However talking to them in a way that gets them attracted, that has always been a problem.

    It's like I keep small talk and Fluff going forever but I just can't think of what to say when I want to escalate and get her more interested in me. It's like I have some sort of mental block when in set that prevents me from drawing upon material I've read or heard before that should help me escalate, and so I keep on in the convo until eventually I can see she's getting bored.

    Now I've had a lot of successes, but those are usually physical, and a lot less verbal interractions. I would really like to be able to talk the talk and get this down.

    Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: Here is my conversation issue...

    You already know the material and somewhat understand women psychology, you just gotta get in the water and start swimming, instead of getting only your feet wet.

    I personally had the same problem with Kino when I first started, until I just start doing it, and they like it.

    Nobody can show you the play by play, only the blueprint.

    Good luck.
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    Default Re: Here is my conversation issue...

    Nikee is right, but I'll try to give you a few suggestions.

    work on your Kino, it makes it easier to escalate hands down - here's a thread
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...html#post63332

    Try to tease her wherever you can, playful teasing is almost always good

    Avoid interview questions, when she tells you something, think about what that tells you about her "oh you must be really adventurous" or "yea I can definitely see that nurturing side to you", whatever you can extrapolate is gonna make her much more interested
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: Here is my conversation issue...

    I guess at some point down the line it will just click.

    I'll keep trying.

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    Default Re: Here is my conversation issue...

    Im from another forum mainly.. but what i see here is that guys are trying to figure out how to get her interested in you, instead of what is to me the key thing... how you are going to let her know what it is that YOU want with her. Showing interest in her, without being afraid.

    See girls will be much more likely to show interest in you if they think you are interested in them... just as us the other way around.


    Try this... when talking to new girls.. ask if they are singel. Smile if you feel like it... be more honest. show her that you like her if you do... the ones that will object to this will just not know how to do it the right way. You just gotta find out how to do it... and you will see alot more response. The currecny of the game is showing interest, not trying to look for her showing interest in you. But you gotta learn how to do it. and to balance it right... work on it and u will see results.


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