I can talk to girls, that's never been a problem. However talking to them in a way that gets them attracted, that has always been a problem.
It's like I keep small talk and Fluff going forever but I just can't think of what to say when I want to escalate and get her more interested in me. It's like I have some sort of mental block when in set that prevents me from drawing upon material I've read or heard before that should help me escalate, and so I keep on in the convo until eventually I can see she's getting bored.
Now I've had a lot of successes, but those are usually physical, and a lot less verbal interractions. I would really like to be able to talk the talk and get this down.