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    Default Blind pua in training needs opening advice

    This is my first post on the site so hopefully i've done it right. Basically i'm a blind 23 year old guy. I obviously need to approach picking up differently. Naturally the whole body language avenue and eye contact is an issue. I've been working with the idea of wearing novelty/ eye grabbing shirts with funny slogans like "how about a blind date" or customising my cane in order to draw attention. any outside the box advice about how to create situations for openers would be great as walking up to a hottie or bringing up a situational opener can be tricky. Cheers lads
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    Default Re: Blind pua in training needs opening advice

    I have so many things to ask you my friend. You've become the most interesting man in the world for the time being. In your situation you still want to really focus on body language and tonality. You may not have the eye contact, but that's ok. You want confidence to ooze out of your persona. Eye grabbing shirts would be hilarious, but not necessary. So all you really need to do for the time being is focus on being 100% comfortable with yourself. When you are then you'll naturally begin to start having stronger vocal projections, and a relaxed body language. If you need tips on how to go about doing this, just ask.

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    Default Re: Blind pua in training needs opening advice

    Hey man. cheers for the compliment? well yeah basically i have good vocal projection and things like that, i was a lead singer for a while so thats not the issue but more so trying to think of some effective ways to open with a chick, as sometimes my ability to use observational lines can be hard. i've been generally working thus far with the idea of asking a girl i might meet about her perfume cause i noticed it and need to buy a gift bla bla bla. but in terms of making myself look the part i'm having a little trouble
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    Default Re: Blind pua in training needs opening advice

    The t-shirt sounds like it would be funny, although gives a bit of the wrong vibe from a PUA perspective. (You have to shape yourself as the prize) But I think it's worth a shot and see the results you get.

    I like the idea of a pimped out cane. Along with some killer sunglasses as well. Overall though you have to show her that you have completely accepted yourself by poking fun of yourself a little bit. It'll make her feel comfortable since you are conveying that you are. No pity party. (Although I'm sure in some cases that would actually work.) Hopefully this helps and good luck.
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    Default Re: Blind pua in training needs opening advice

    Quote Originally Posted by sightnotseen View Post
    This is my first post on the site so hopefully i've done it right. Basically i'm a blind 23 year old guy. I obviously need to approach picking up differently. Naturally the whole body language avenue and eye contact is an issue. I've been working with the idea of wearing novelty/ eye grabbing shirts with funny slogans like "how about a blind date" or customising my cane in order to draw attention. any outside the box advice about how to create situations for openers would be great as walking up to a hottie or bringing up a situational opener can be tricky. Cheers lads
    Hmmm...

    You can open directly by challenging her.

    Ask a friend to tell you where the hottest girl is, go to her and tell her "OY, my friend told you you're sickingly cute. That's good, but what else do you have other than your looks?"
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    Default Re: Blind pua in training needs opening advice

    In a lot of ways being blind isn't that terrible for PUA. It gives you the perfect excuse to use Kino right from the beginning and I think it will Disarm a lot of women. I think this second point is both a blessing and a curse though, because you're going to have to take yourself out of the "victim" box that I imagine people tend to put you in before they know you.

    As far as openers and stuff go, I don't think you need to resort to any gimmicks or peacocking. In fact, I would shy away from that stuff if I were you. Using a cane and wearing sunglasses will draw enough attention to you, so you don't need to draw more attention to yourself with gimmicks. Instead, I think you want to focus on dressing very well and showing that you don't use blindness as an excuse to not look your best. In other words, be fashionable.

    As far as openers go, they really aren't as important as everyone thinks they are when they are starting out in this, but I think in your case you have some great material to work with. First off, no matter what opener you use, you should initiate kino from the beginning. Come up with some reason, like "I can't see you, so I have to use my other senses." Basically, keep your hand on their hands, wrists, shoulder, lower back at all times.

    Second, because there's going to be a tendency for others to pity you, you need to show that you're self-dependent and an alpha. Get very sexual and escalate quickly. Women are going to be disarmed, so they won't be as opposed to you touching them sexually much quicker than they normally let other guys.

    Third, some great material you can use consistently is things like bumping into women or tapping them with your cane "by accident." Once you do that, just make light of it and move into your game. Make light of being blind. Silly comments like, "The music in here is great, but the club's a little dark for my liking," will really help women warm up to you because it shows that you're comfortable. If you were in the States I'd tell you to use the trick from Ray, where Ray Charles grabs the girls wrist to tell if she's hot.
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