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    Default need help with my new manager at work

    so my new manager at work is 1 of 4 managers. We are also not suppose to even hang out with our managers even for lunch. my problem is that is seems like we flirt a lot. she laughs basically at all my jokes. she is always asking me to help her and most of the time she just randomly talks to me about almost nothing. Out of all that the only thing that convinces me shes into me is when we keep eye contact and smile at each other. neither of us look away and it does not feel weird at all. of course we don't really do that when other coworkers are around but it seems like if its just us it gets a little flirty.
    so what do you guys think? i cant ask anyone i work with because if they found out anything was happening they would very quickly spread the word and then we would both be in trouble. so should i try and make some kind of move? or just let it play out a little more?
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: need help with my new manager at work

    This is very exciting. I love the feeling of forbidden lust/or love or what ever.

    This is what you need to do. You need to make a move and make it clear that it needs to be kept secret and that's its important that you do.

    Ok, now here is the fun part. A few years ago I wrote an article about affairs and why its healthy, for a British magazine.

    The thing about having a fling with a friend from your friendship group, a co-worker or someone almost forbidden is the ultimate aphrodisiac for her, you and your relationship.
    It will become a game for you both and it will be fun as its a new and unusual dynamic trying to keep it secret. You will have a secret code for each other and the sneaking around will be so much fun for her and you.

    So, yes you can make a move and have some fum, or since you work together, you can stick it out longer and play a long game. I like to move in sooner rather then later.

    Guy Mitchley

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    Default Re: need help with my new manager at work

    don't sh1t where u eat bro'

    plus 30 characters

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    Default Re: need help with my new manager at work

    Quote Originally Posted by rs5096 View Post
    don't sh1t in ur kitchen bro'

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    well its only a part time job for me so i dont care to much if i had to leave it. she also says it is just a job to do until she gets a better one. so i do not see a problem with it.
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: need help with my new manager at work

    Fair enough - then make a move

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    Default Re: need help with my new manager at work

    well what do you guys suggest i do for my move? there are a lot to choose from i just dont know what the best one would be in this situation.
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: need help with my new manager at work

    I reckon, on a Thursday night. Arrange to go out for drinks after work, which is an innocent enough thing. Maybe with a few mates from work or so to camouflage it. Flirt a bit more and try and use the logistics to your advantage i.e. wait for the others to leave or bounce with her to another bar depending on circumstances. share a cab ride home. anything to get you and her alone. does play up the excitement factor.


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