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    Default Does direct day game work as well in North America

    I see a lot to English and European pua"s on YouTube using very direct approaches ( going up and telling the girl they find her attractive and want to start a conversation ) these girls are often very romantically culture but I don't know if I could see girls in USA or Canada being into this. It seems almost out of the expected norm and like it might scare them . I notice American pua guys do more indirect like ask questions then get into a discussion . Is this due to thrift that those styles fit those cultures more or will Direct Game work in North America ?

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    Default Re: Does direct day game work as well in North America

    Umm, it works the same. The key to Direct Game vs. Indirect Game, at least from my experience, is that it depends entirely on the atmosphere. Direct game tends to work best when women aren't guarded. During the day, in fairly public places like the street. It hasn't worked nearly as well during night game, in clubs and bars etc.
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    Default Re: Does direct day game work as well in North America

    Direct works best. I'm from Vancouver and most people are in a rush, especially woman. I don't know why but they just are, well mostly downtown. So you really don't have a choice but to go direct. Now indirect does work. Yesterday I number closed a girl indirect. The only reason why I went indirect is because I could tell she was not in a hurry, walking slowly and it seemed like she was just on her way home. Plus I was already walking behind her on my way home so it made sense. My opener was "hey do you know if that liquor store up the street is open passed 7?" The rest of my game was good and it turned into a 20 minute conversation. Funny enough I remember her being a waitress from 3 years ago and tried to Number Close when she was working and had no luck and here we are now going out this weekend.

    However, there is one secret about north american girls. They are more worried about the dangers of life. So don't approach in scary places (ex. underground parking) and make sure you approach with a smile and are dressed appropriately for the area. If I'm by the beach I'll be in shorts, t shirt and flip flops...but there good quality clothing. If I'm downtown I'll be dressed semi casual wearing an expensive watch. Remember, a girl in a major city is used to bum's asking for change so when she see's you for the first second the thought of you possibly being homeless better not be crossing her mind. All's it takes is a hole in your shirt or dirty shoes and she's out!

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    Default Re: Does direct day game work as well in North America

    Quote Originally Posted by The Bartender View Post
    Direct works best. I'm from Vancouver and most people are in a rush, especially woman. I don't know why but they just are, well mostly downtown. So you really don't have a choice but to go direct. Now indirect does work. Yesterday I number closed a girl indirect. The only reason why I went indirect is because I could tell she was not in a hurry, walking slowly and it seemed like she was just on her way home. Plus I was already walking behind her on my way home so it made sense. My opener was "hey do you know if that liquor store up the street is open passed 7?" The rest of my game was good and it turned into a 20 minute conversation. Funny enough I remember her being a waitress from 3 years ago and tried to Number Close when she was working and had no luck and here we are now going out this weekend.

    However, there is one secret about north american girls. They are more worried about the dangers of life. So don't approach in scary places (ex. underground parking) and make sure you approach with a smile and are dressed appropriately for the area. If I'm by the beach I'll be in shorts, t shirt and flip flops...but there good quality clothing. If I'm downtown I'll be dressed semi casual wearing an expensive watch. Remember, a girl in a major city is used to bum's asking for change so when she see's you for the first second the thought of you possibly being homeless better not be crossing her mind. All's it takes is a hole in your shirt or dirty shoes and she's out!
    This is all great to hear in face I visit Vancouver once in a while and was planning on really doing tons if game day practice there to get the jitters out. Can you give me a few examples of openers and conversation you may use? That would be very helpful since we are from the same region and I feel the conversations might be a bit different from those British folks .

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    Default Re: Does direct day game work as well in North America

    Quote Originally Posted by hensp View Post
    I see a lot to English and European pua"s on YouTube using very direct approaches ( going up and telling the girl they find her attractive and want to start a conversation ) these girls are often very romantically culture but I don't know if I could see girls in USA or Canada being into this. It seems almost out of the expected norm and like it might scare them . I notice American pua guys do more indirect like ask questions then get into a discussion . Is this due to thrift that those styles fit those cultures more or will Direct Game work in North America ?
    I don't think it's being direct or indirect what's making game work.

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    Default Re: Does direct day game work as well in North America

    i was actually about to make a thread about this until i notiticed this one, i've been watching a lot of direct/day game videos on youtube and they're for the most part English and European and to be honest, and in no way i mean any disrespect to anybody but it seems alot of the time they will Number Close but it almost seems like the girl is just annoyed by the approach in general, i also understand that Direct Game does have a less likely rate at success

    im open to hear anybodies thoughts on this
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    Default Re: Does direct day game work as well in North America

    I think Direct Game works just as well in north America as it does any where else. as for direct vs indirect, its really just a matter of preference. though I have found that direct works super well on shyer girls, but doesn't work well on social butterfly's, while indirect is the opposite, its terrible for shy girls, but it works wonders on girls who regularly get direct approached (having a different approach from all the other guys can make a huge difference)

    and just as a side note, with direct game, it helps if you don't use a direct opener but rather open get her response, and then go direct (telling a girl she is beautiful right away is like cat calling, it seems superficial and makes her think your just trying to get into her pants) it helps a lot to learn a little about her before you show direct interest.

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    Default Re: Does direct day game work as well in North America

    Quote Originally Posted by hensp View Post
    I see a lot to English and European pua"s on YouTube using very direct approaches ( going up and telling the girl they find her attractive and want to start a conversation ) these girls are often very romantically culture but I don't know if I could see girls in USA or Canada being into this. It seems almost out of the expected norm and like it might scare them . I notice American pua guys do more indirect like ask questions then get into a discussion . Is this due to thrift that those styles fit those cultures more or will Direct Game work in North America ?
    Whatever style of game works best for you in other parts of the world will work equally well in North America.
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    Default Re: Does direct day game work as well in North America

    In this instance the geography doesn't matter, the only thing that matters is how you sell you game. In most instances when we walk around during the day we are very cause and affect or very task oriented. We are doing something say shopping so we interact with others to accomplish this. Excuse me just reaching past you to get this, or similar principal. We use interactions to obtain the goals we are trying to accomplish. Daily interactions by design are rather direct. So direct day game is rather a situation I feel would yield the best results being that during the day most of us prefer to get to the point. However, at the same token it is easy to appear threatening or predatory depending upon the individual. So care must be taken not to trigger a defensive response.

    That being said I think tactics in any day game are purely to be decided by your individual strength and geography will have little if any affect upon the outcome or success
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    Default Re: Does direct day game work as well in North America

    Quote Originally Posted by TomInVegas View Post
    Whatever style of game works best for you in other parts of the world will work equally well in North America.
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