Re: Advice please- how to pick someone up at a shopping mall
So first, when in malls, direct is your best bet. Going and telling her honestly that you just saw her passing by and thought she was cute and wanted to say hi
Second, don't go with the objective of taking her for coffee or pizza or something. You go speak to her to say hi, and find if she's cool, that's all. Then if she's cool, you will take her to coffee, or get her number, or whatever. But realize that of all the women you will speak to, some will just reject you straight. Then, those that don't reject you won't all be interesting, some might be boring as fuck. And among the ones that keep talking with you and are interesting, some might just not be available.
Not saying it's bound to fail, not at all. But go step by step
Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.