Re: Staying positive
Wow, did I start that thread? Because this is exactly my situation haha! Dating six girls during the summer, all foreign students, all went back to their countries at the same time. Poor me had only one lady left
And yeah, also had this issue that it is difficult to stay positive.
My solution - which might be unpopular, and is just what helps *me* - is to write Field Reports about my last successes and failures, give advice to people over here, read some book, and so on.
I'm not big on sarging (I get most of my lays through network/lifestyle (although I do daygame/nightgame at least once a week, but I suck at it)), so this helps me stay in the Mindset, and remember that yeah, I did good, and yeah, I know my stuff. But it borderlines on being a keyboard-jockey, so it's important to remember that it is just a secondary thing to get you back in the game.
Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.