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    mike.wow89 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Staying positive

    What are some excersizes one can do the to keep his mind frame positive in terms of picking up, dating, and meeting new women. I've had pretty good outcomes this summer, but now I am only down to dating one girl . What somethings I can do to stay positive about my situation and get back to where I was and also improve. thank you.

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    Default Re: Staying positive

    your frame is you are building a skill-set and must keep your options open unless you are really exclusive even then you may talk to other girls innocently.

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    Default Re: Staying positive

    Wow, did I start that thread? Because this is exactly my situation haha! Dating six girls during the summer, all foreign students, all went back to their countries at the same time. Poor me had only one lady left

    And yeah, also had this issue that it is difficult to stay positive.

    My solution - which might be unpopular, and is just what helps *me* - is to write Field Reports about my last successes and failures, give advice to people over here, read some book, and so on.

    I'm not big on sarging (I get most of my lays through network/lifestyle (although I do daygame/nightgame at least once a week, but I suck at it)), so this helps me stay in the Mindset, and remember that yeah, I did good, and yeah, I know my stuff. But it borderlines on being a keyboard-jockey, so it's important to remember that it is just a secondary thing to get you back in the game.
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: Staying positive

    I remember another poster on here mentioning that you get some success then reach a plateau where you find it hard to sustain the initial success. That's how I feel now as I'm finding it hard to keep the momentum going and getting motivated to go and meet new girls.

    I agree with Mikalichov about keeping a diary about successes and failures but don't obsess too much over failures. Keep in mind the successes you had and concentrate on that. Think about what what you liked about the successes, how it made you feel and that you want it again. I mentioned in the Health and fitness forum about Mindfullness meditation. I know it sounds very hippy and new-age but I use it to keep motivated for my fitness routine and it is helping me keep focused when I can't really be bothered with picking up or feeling that I am getting no where with it.

    From reading comments on this and other forums, it sounds like this is a common problem with aspiring players and unfortunately there is no quick fixes, you just need to keep doing it until you get the consistency where picking up becomes natural.


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