A lot of men have no idea of how to flirt with girls. By listening to all of the bad advice floating around the web gets men slapped on the face and drinks spilled on them. It is important for a man to create an attraction with the girl if he wants to further a relationship or pick a girl up. There are a few tips you can follow to help with your approach and flirtation with girls.
1) You must stay relaxed: Women are like animals, they can smell fear and women hates a man without confidence. If you have accomplished a date with a girl, don't screw it up at dinner or while you're at home watching a movie together. By stressing on how to get the girl to like you may end up making her dislike you instead. Before you begin the flirting process, take a breather and relax yourself. Flirting is meant to be fun and when done right, can really increase the attraction in the relationship. When you are tense, you're flirting will seem forced and unnatural and you won't be able to have fun.
2) It's okay to be a little cocky; try being funny too: Girls love a confident man and even more, she loves a man that can make her laugh. You may hear of tips about flirting that suggest men to be cocky; this is regarding your confidence. Don't act shy when your approach a girl you are interested in. If you feel uncomfortable with flirting with her, take yourself back to middle school and tease her a bit. Make sure the insults are light; you don't want to get her angry. It needs to be fun and show her that you are not afraid and that you can goof around.
3) Flirting doesn't come easy to everyone: It is a known fact that not every man is capable of flirting with ease. For others, it will take practice and knowing what does and doesn't work. Once you see that you are able to flirt with girls successfully, you will be more attuned to doing so. Try flirting with many girls; keep your game fresh. Just because you succeeded with a couple, doesn't mean you will do so with all. Whenever you get the chance to flirt, do it! Soon you'll know the mechanisms of a girl and know beforehand what kind of girl she is and what would make her smile and accept your flirtatious invitation.
Flirting isn't something that is difficult. It is all in your frame of mind. If you make yourself believe that it is an impossible task, you will make it into just that. Flirting is supposed to be fun, so don't turn it into something that has to be complicated. Don't give up when a girl turns you down, just look at it like a life's lesson to flirting. If you have friends that are great at flirting with girls, watch them at work. You don't have to ask them for tips and advice, just watching them in action should be enough.