Re: I sing with a club band and I still can't pick up girls
Definitely a confidence thing. Here's a few things you can tell yourself that may help you out.
- Women want sex. And they want it with you. You don't have apologize for your desire because you both want the same thing. She is just looking for you to lead her.
- They are in YOUR world. You are NOT in theirs. So because this is your world, you treat it like a playground. And do what you want. In fact, if your frame is strong enough you can pull off some crazy things and you'd actually be shaping it like other people are rude for not going along with it. It's not about truth. It's about controlling people's perceptions of the world around them.
- Have fun! And don't worry about what other people think. In fact, they are likely wondering how YOU think of THEM. You're the rockstar remember!!
The rest is mostly about pushing your comfort zone and owning your world. Hope this helps and good luck.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."