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    Default Can PUA still be affective when in a wheelchair

    How more people read this is this section and I can at least get a few replies.

    So brief background, I never had too many problems getting girls to throw themselves at me because I was attractive. But about a year ago I broke my spine in a really bad car crash. I'm only a paraplegic so I can completely take care of myself so no worries there. And yes I can still have sex so please dont ask. But this injury has completely shattered my confidence and killed my game. Women find a wheelchair a huge put off before I can even introduce myself. Now, don't get me wrong I don't want sympathy thats not what I'm here after. I want to know what you all honestly think, can a guy in a wheelchair get his game back or am I wasting my time because its just too off putting?

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    Default Re: Can PUA still be affective when in a wheelchair

    You can still get your game back... Respect though for you still trying to get back up because I would've quit and said fuck life if something like that happened to me. Women are more focused on how you make them feel compared to your looks or whatever is wrong with you. As long as you don't make a big deal out of it they won't either
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Can PUA still be affective when in a wheelchair

    It's definitely tougher but still doable. You just need to accept that it's going to be different, you won't be going to bars and high energy and density places to pick up women, big deal. Just tweak your game to more favorable settings for your condition and you should start seeing results!

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    Default Re: Can PUA still be affective when in a wheelchair

    Hey thanks for the input guys. Just curious has anyone every seen a hot chick with a dude in a chair? I have also heard that if you transfer into a seat other than your wheelchair you can hook them than they wont be as concerned with the chair when they find out

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    Default Re: Can PUA still be affective when in a wheelchair

    being stuck in a wheelchair is definitely a game changer, you just have to figure out where it helps and where it hurts your game. believe it or not there actually could be some advantages to being in a wheelchair.

    obviously, your not going to be able to go to nightclubs and dance with girls, as a matter of fact night game is almost out of the question (lets face it, high energy environments where people are constantly moving will be almost impossible for you to sarge because of your mobility issues)

    however it can be advantageous in lower energy day game environments, for instance you could go to the library and get a girl to help you reach a book from one of the higher shelves (not to seek pity, but getting a girl to help you is an easey opene/compliance test and most woman are caring enough to at least help you out a little if they have time) also you're actually less likely to get rejected because people are usually more polite to handy-caped people

    you just have to figure out what will work for you and what won't, it may take some experimentation for you to figure it out but once you get into the grove of day game you should be able to at least improve your success rate and get girlfriends.

    i'm going to also give you a list of places I think you could sarge.

    -the park
    -coffea shops
    -church
    -physical therapy (if you are doing it)
    -chess tournaments
    -speed dating events (you get to be seated with every girl there for a short period of time witch could help you practice different approaches without having to do much work)
    -libraries
    -grocery stores (going shopping for your own grocery's could also help show your independence despite the fact of your injuries)
    -any club or organization that has regular meetings
    -college (if you desire to take classes)

    and last but not least here are some activities you could try for dates/hobbies (of course i'm sure you've already figured out what you can and can't do)
    -board games
    -romantic dinner
    -cooking
    -fishing
    -video games (if you get a gamer chick)
    -card games
    -shooting guns
    -going for stroles in the park/city (of course this one could be difficult)
    -wheelchair racing
    -shopping with chicks
    -watching movies together
    -any activity that engages the mind more than the body that you can think of.

    you can't give up just because your disabled, you have to stay positive and act like you're perfectly normal. it will only prevent you from getting girls if you allow it to.

    if you can talk, you can get girls. you just have to improvise, adapt to, and overcome your disability.

    good luck!

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    Default Re: Can PUA still be affective when in a wheelchair

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    being stuck in a wheelchair is definitely a game changer, you just have to figure out where it helps and where it hurts your game. believe it or not there actually could be some advantages to being in a wheelchair.

    obviously, your not going to be able to go to nightclubs and dance with girls, as a matter of fact night game is almost out of the question (lets face it, high energy environments where people are constantly moving will be almost impossible for you to sarge because of your mobility issues)

    however it can be advantageous in lower energy day game environments, for instance you could go to the library and get a girl to help you reach a book from one of the higher shelves (not to seek pity, but getting a girl to help you is an easey opene/compliance test and most woman are caring enough to at least help you out a little if they have time) also you're actually less likely to get rejected because people are usually more polite to handy-caped people

    you just have to figure out what will work for you and what won't, it may take some experimentation for you to figure it out but once you get into the grove of day game you should be able to at least improve your success rate and get girlfriends.

    i'm going to also give you a list of places I think you could sarge.

    -the park
    -coffea shops
    -church
    -physical therapy (if you are doing it)
    -chess tournaments
    -speed dating events (you get to be seated with every girl there for a short period of time witch could help you practice different approaches without having to do much work)
    -libraries
    -grocery stores (going shopping for your own grocery's could also help show your independence despite the fact of your injuries)
    -any club or organization that has regular meetings
    -college (if you desire to take classes)

    and last but not least here are some activities you could try for dates/hobbies (of course i'm sure you've already figured out what you can and can't do)
    -board games
    -romantic dinner
    -cooking
    -fishing
    -video games (if you get a gamer chick)
    -card games
    -shooting guns
    -going for stroles in the park/city (of course this one could be difficult)
    -wheelchair racing
    -shopping with chicks
    -watching movies together
    -any activity that engages the mind more than the body that you can think of.

    you can't give up just because your disabled, you have to stay positive and act like you're perfectly normal. it will only prevent you from getting girls if you allow it to.

    if you can talk, you can get girls. you just have to improvise, adapt to, and overcome your disability.

    good luck!
    Hey thanks for the in depth bro. Im going to be resuming college here soon so I'm hoping that'll help some. Thanks for the vote of confidence too

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    Default Re: Can PUA still be affective when in a wheelchair

    Here you go man:

    youtube.com/watch?v=64Ixzp94ksw


    I'm not convinced you are at any disadvantage (in daygame at least). The chair can be very useful.

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    Default Re: Can PUA still be affective when in a wheelchair

    ha ya I've seen this. While good for a laugh I feel like all the numbers they get are sympathy numbers. Not to mention those guys have no idea what it is being a paraplegic. Most of the things they said they need help with we actually don't. But back to what I was saying most girls try to friendzone you right away and just give you numbers because they feel sorry for you. And I have never got a friend to be a gf.

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    Default Re: Can PUA still be affective when in a wheelchair

    Dude, you already have the wrong mind set.

    You said "But back to what I was saying most girls try to friendzone you right away and just give you numbers because they feel sorry for you."

    With that attitude, your always going to be thinking "She feels sorry for me, that is why she gave me her number" Why not think "She likes me, at least 51%" And move forward from there. If she gives you her number, ask her out on the spot.

    You can go to night clubs too. Everyone guys and girls will notice you. It is the ultimate way to stick out. Hang in one or two spots through out the night, that way, by the end of the night the entire bar would have passed by. Start a convo when someone walks by. Guy or girl. You never know who they are with. Next thing you know your at a table with a new group of people. Then run your game Bro.

    Let us know how this works out.

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    Default Re: Can PUA still be affective when in a wheelchair

    My friends aunt's BF had the exact same thing happen to him. He was involved in a car crash, broke his spine and he can't walk, but he's still a totally Alpha Male. When he's in a room, he's the coolest guy there. He has the most interesting stories and he has a great presence surrounding him.

    Why not go to a nightclub or bar?


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