So there is a girl I have been talking to off and on since January. Since first seeing this girl I have had a crush on her and enjoy talking to her. I don't see her a lot, only when she drops thing's off at my job, sometimes she comes and I don't see her, its just the nature of the job.
She has flirted with me I think, done some Kino, she has joked with me, told me things about her self without me asking things, I have asked her stuff and she's answered my questions, my gut is telling me this girl might like me but, I have just played it cool and not jumped into thing's. I don't know if she just being friendly or showing interest. I am an okay looking guy, a little on the heavy side, this girl is tall and athletic, so I have my doubts.
I'll just skip ahead to this past week, she came by and started talking about her day, before that she just digs into my pocket to find a pen. I mean who does that? instead of just asking if I have a pen. We talked for a little while and really got a good conversation going and she even gave me a compliment.
I am attracted to this girl but I am not sure if she feels the same, so to make things weird, I have had a online dating profile for awhile and recently canceled my subscription, just no luck. So I reset my profile views to zero on Sunday night and left it at that, this past Thursday was the night I talked to her.
So it's 1 am and I log on before bed just to browse again the same night, I log onto my account and there she is on some pick a girl option. I decided to do a search, this girl is a 95% match to me. I couldn't believe it, looks like she just joined the site recently. Also it looks like she may have viewed my profile but I am not sure if it was her, just guessing by the location and age which match her.
I don't know if she viewed my profile before she came in Thursday and we talked or after, later that night. Like I said I am not 100% sure it was her.
I'm just wondering what would be the right steps to asking this girl out, should I mention that were matches on the site and then ask if she wants to go out, then ask for the number. Or should I leave the match thing out of it, just ask if she wants to go on a date and get the number. Or should I message her on the site?
I would appreciate any guidance on this, I am not that great at this and have been trying to come out of my shell a little. I would like to try and do the right thing and get this girl. Thank you in advanced.