if anyone wants to add me on Facebook:
My first post I love these forums already...regarding the pictures you should have on ur profile...I think its best to have your profile picture with just you, but have many other pictures on your profile with other girls...I have found this to be extremely helpful as it is an extremely easy way to demonstrate social proof, and ive never had a complaint about it. I wouldn't do just you and one girl bc everyone will assume its a gf
I think messages are best, personally I don't find it creepy when i get a message.
Also, u get what u ask for if you want the number...ask for it...but u are right Facebook isn't going away so we should learn to use it...
hi guys i know this is a pretty old post but i have no clue where to start a new topic. i found this thread and i needed an advice regarding facebook game. I hope you guys don't mind this.
well my question is,
i met this girl like 10 years ago when we were kids in my country in asia. she is an american missionary kid and she used to have a crush on me back then but i left the country like seven years ago for schooling and came to the states. i never kept in touch with her but her family and my family sort of work together back home. my dad told me that she recently came to the states for college. I stalked her in the fb and found her profile but haven't added her as a friend. i am little interested to reconstruct my relationship with her and yep she has gotten lot hotter compared to last time i saw her. she lives in different state and i live somewhere else but I go there often to meet my cousins. I have no other way to reach her but fb so i am wondering if it would be okay to add her as a friend knowing that it would display me as a stalker. if there is a better way to come about approaching how can i do it. advice from any of you guys would be much appreciated.
if you guys have friends in common then its not bad
I live in my reality and you’re a guest
Firstly, great forum, much easier to use, which is what turned me off from most.
FB Game to seems have become a critcal part of pick-up. It is also a powerful tool to create social proof, which I have only started to use in this fashion. I find that sometimes I don't want to share my number so instead I let them add me on FB. (Often girls in set, friends of the target, or sets I used to create social proof early on will want to number exchange and I will offer my FB instead - they then proceed to add to your social proof when they add you on FB (you normally get the whole - hey it was fun meeting you posts - which is great social proof)
As far as targets go, initially I messaged, but I think it's much better to comment on their status' - you can start to immediatley build that connection, make them laugh and further stimulate their attraction.
Any other ideas? Script?
I got the 58 status' thing too! They work so well. It's weird. But, they are real good. I highly recommend them, although I am slightly worried a wing or some other PUA on my FB will start using it and some of our girl's in common will see them. One thing that sucks about FB Game is getting shut down on another girl's wall in some way. Happened to me like a month ago and it still gnaws at me, lol. Also, if I add an HB9 or an HB10, they have like 1000+ friends. I have like 235. I think this turns some of 'em off, it's lower social proof. I'm trying to figure out how to remedy this without adding random people.
One other thing - to hit on a girl on FB, post a pic of a weird looking fish or animal on her wall and tell her it kinda reminded you of her. That'll get things going. Also, and this one's ballsy, if you have seen a girl's underware, comment on it on her wall. For example, some girl showed me her green bra at a bar, and I asked her if she got her green article of clothing from Aerie, because I saw a similar article of clothing recently with an Aerie tag on it. She was all like "Nooooo!" and it turned into a real flirtatious thing where other peeople got involved - mainly wicked jealous dudes. I mentioned her in another thread, the bellydancer.
Thks guys, just picked on the 58 status updates that hit at attraction switches. I think if we use the attraction switches theory and apply it we could probably come up with our own status updates as well. Not that those are not already brilliant, love em But originality goes a long way.
I recently updated my status as follows, "In my next life I want to be a Buddhist Hillbilly ... drinking bourbon, meditating ... occasionally catching a piss in the sink" ... - got lots of attention, I think it was a bit flawed - but it got the right reaction.
I think it was a bit of adventurous,humurous self actualisation.
Another funny one: "I can't believe I got sacked from the calendar factory. All I did was take a day off. "
And one I used with the intention of creating social proof and jealousy, which could use a few tweaks ... "Can barely believe I've turned down four invites to party tonight, the doctor did say I need rest though ... oh well at least, Candice's chicken soup and company will help"
Can you guys think of any more?
"Was looking for childhood friends in FB to reconnect with. Were you ever in Asia as a daughter of these Missionary folks, who used to wear her hair in pigtails and steal candy from this really cute boy with a toothy grin? If so, add me up."
Well, you'd have to think up a cool or at least identifying memory for that. I just woke up and I am uninspired
And if it's your first time to chat, don't immediately try to bring up the use of webcams. Instead, just try directing her to one of your pictures in your album (one that reeks of social proof) and maybe you can get her to do the same.
On FB alerts... find a picture of you that can generate comments. Pic of you as a baby, a dorky pic of you and say you've outgrown the phase, a bad haircut pic and say you've forgiven your mother, etc