Re: Approching a women who is looking past you
Originally Posted by Cyvasse
Should you sarge a girl who is walking and also looking past you.
Yes, some of my best sets have been cold approaches with women giving me no IOI's, not looking at me, not smiling at me, etc. I usually do an epic fail on the warm approaches with girls who are feeding me the eyes, giving me IOI's, checking me out because I get too much validation too quick and it often goes to my head. Moving targets are hard but I noticed if you just walk with them sometimes they forget where they are going and you can then lead them where you want to go. You'll find that girls will play games to get guys attention some of the common ways are ignoring you, talking to other guys, playing hard to get/not giving their number but then later you are grinding with them taking them home, saying they are lesbos and in 10 minutes making out with you, etc. That stuff only works when you start going Alpha to break through those brick walls, if you are acting AFC all night towards the "lesbo" she won't go for it but if she sees a moment of greatness she will come running, happened more times than I can count. Approached girls 2-3 times and got blown out/going AFC then they came around when I started acting Alpha and having jerky confidence. You must understand that you can only take what girls say with a grain of salt since often times they will trick you if you fall for it. I have caught girls lying about having a BF too. It's all about congruence and calibration and I almost talked a 10 into ditching her BF for me that night.
I find that girls dont really look at me at all when I walk past them its almost like they are trying not to look at me on purpose.
This is normal. Many hot girls barely ever look at me and I am a super good looking guy who has been called sexy, yummy, and girls dropped their jaws and said OMG one time when they saw me, etc. This was back in the day but now I look better but get less attention. I get a lot of flirting in Set and girls who ditch their BF's at Red Robin to talk to me but all in all it's about looking your best and keeping your wardrobe up to date while not slacking on the Gym. Another is girls don't often look at guys because they have enough guys approaching them and I often feel invisible but they sure do start looking when you approach "they can feel it".
To Sarge or not to Sarge that is the question.
To sarge is the answer. The more you get better at it the more your value goes up and up. Your social status will go up as well as long as you are not approval seeking. The key is not to be affected when one girl blows you out, you just go on to the next one and the next one.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.