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    Default Approching a women who is looking past you

    I often times run into the same problem time after time. Should you sarge a girl who is walking and also looking past you. I find that girls dont really look at me at all when I walk past them its almost like they are trying not to look at me on purpose. Im not really starting at them just talking a quick glance. To Sarge or not to Sarge that is the question.

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    Default Re: Approching a women who is looking past you

    Nope its not best to sarge.simply let them walk past you as soon as they pass you turn around walking towards their left and tap them on the shoulder.
    make a direct statement of interest in target without coming off as needy.

    as if you noticed them thats why you immediately turned feature that..

    remember all with a warm relaxed body language and tone..

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    Default Re: Approching a women who is looking past you

    This could be a social proof issue.
    It's as simple as that: if you're just standing there alone with a drink in your hand so obviously checking all the girls out and wondering if you should make a move or not, then you're not looking good mate. It's not a good look for you and they will want to look past you on purpose, fix the root issue instead of wondering if you should sarge or not.

    Work on your social image wherever you are, have people around you, be in control and above all enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Approching a women who is looking past you

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    Nope its not best to sarge.simply let them walk past you as soon as they pass you turn around walking towards their left and tap them on the shoulder.
    make a direct statement of interest in target without coming off as needy.

    as if you noticed them thats why you immediately turned feature that..

    remember all with a warm relaxed body language and tone..
    I believe you are right except when it comes to getting her attention. Instead of tapping her on the shoulder and approaching from behind run a few feet in front of her then turn and stop directly in front of her so that she has to stop. Once you have made eye contact open her.

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    Default Re: Approching a women who is looking past you

    Even though you passed them you just actually noticed.some girls may freak if you stop in front of them and if your frame is not strong enough or are just starting..

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    Default Re: Approching a women who is looking past you

    Yea, I'm not sure if I would put myself in their path like an obstacle. I'd definitely wait until she's next to you or passed you. Usually what I do when they are like that is catch their attention right as they are going by and say something like, "is that a game you're playing?" She will usually say something like "what" and follow it up with, "seeing how long you can scrunch your nose up at people as you walk around. I mean, you're scaring all the people away. The guys are too nervous to approach you, the girls are afraid you might swing at them if they get within your reach.. I'd think you're a murderer if you weren't wearing such a nice dress"

    There's a ton of things to say after the ".." but the important thing is to get her invested. I use this alot and they almost always open up and start talking. The hotter ones tend to throw out sh!t tests but just keep the frame and give her sh!t back and it works like gold.

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    Default Re: Approching a women who is looking past you

    Normally what I use is..I will leave them to pass me first and then I walk towards them..tap her on the shoulder and say..'Excuse me hi..I just saw you walking pastby and I had to come and tell you that you look absolutely stunning'..If she is dressing well but the way I open varies in degree to how hot the girl is..If she is a 7 and 8 I use the above mentioned opener..when she is a 9 or 10, I use something like..'Excuse me hi, I just saw you walking pastby and I felt this beautiful energy as I passed you'

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    Default Re: Approching a women who is looking past you

    I would suggest that you work on your body language.

    - Do you walk in a relaxed and confident way like an alpha male would?

    - Do you smile and look worry free like an alpha as you walk?

    - Are you well groomed ?

    If you do these things trust me the women WILL look your way and opening them will be easy.

    Here is a link to a video with a few tips on walking.

    How To Walk With Confidence - YouTube

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    Default Re: Approching a women who is looking past you

    Quote Originally Posted by Cyvasse View Post
    I often times run into the same problem time after time. Should you Sarge a girl who is walking and also looking past you. I find that girls dont really look at me at all when I walk past them its almost like they are trying not to look at me on purpose. Im not really starting at them just talking a quick glance. To Sarge or not to Sarge that is the question.

    Should you sarge a girl who is walking and also looking past you.
    Yes, some of my best sets have been cold approaches with women giving me no IOI's, not looking at me, not smiling at me, etc. I usually do an epic fail on the warm approaches with girls who are feeding me the eyes, giving me IOI's, checking me out because I get too much validation too quick and it often goes to my head. Moving targets are hard but I noticed if you just walk with them sometimes they forget where they are going and you can then lead them where you want to go. You'll find that girls will play games to get guys attention some of the common ways are ignoring you, talking to other guys, playing hard to get/not giving their number but then later you are grinding with them taking them home, saying they are lesbos and in 10 minutes making out with you, etc. That stuff only works when you start going Alpha to break through those brick walls, if you are acting AFC all night towards the "lesbo" she won't go for it but if she sees a moment of greatness she will come running, happened more times than I can count. Approached girls 2-3 times and got blown out/going AFC then they came around when I started acting Alpha and having jerky confidence. You must understand that you can only take what girls say with a grain of salt since often times they will trick you if you fall for it. I have caught girls lying about having a BF too. It's all about congruence and calibration and I almost talked a 10 into ditching her BF for me that night.

    I find that girls dont really look at me at all when I walk past them its almost like they are trying not to look at me on purpose.

    This is normal. Many hot girls barely ever look at me and I am a super good looking guy who has been called sexy, yummy, and girls dropped their jaws and said OMG one time when they saw me, etc. This was back in the day but now I look better but get less attention. I get a lot of flirting in Set and girls who ditch their BF's at Red Robin to talk to me but all in all it's about looking your best and keeping your wardrobe up to date while not slacking on the Gym. Another is girls don't often look at guys because they have enough guys approaching them and I often feel invisible but they sure do start looking when you approach "they can feel it".

    To Sarge or not to Sarge that is the question.
    To sarge is the answer. The more you get better at it the more your value goes up and up. Your social status will go up as well as long as you are not approval seeking. The key is not to be affected when one girl blows you out, you just go on to the next one and the next one.
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    Default Re: Approching a women who is looking past you

    There's a million ways to look at it, I've had success and failure in this same situation, my usual opener is, "whoa, your just gonna walk by me without saying anything?" When I get a smile or laugh I continue with, "I mean I did see you checking me out" and other times I get either no response or acknowledgement, but to me this helps me through any anxiety Imay have had prior, learning process.
    You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...

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