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    Default Approaching groups of women

    I am referring mainly to a bar or nightclub setting here although it could apply to any social group or party. About 99 percent of the time when you go out women are not going to be all by themselves. When they are it is usually because they are waiting for someone to arrive.

    What I would like to know is what is the best way to approach a group of women(who are either standing or sitting)in a group of 3 or more. Should you only approach women who are standing? Also, what should you say to Isolate one of them. Also, how important is it to have eye contact first?

    It seems to me(based on approaches I did over the summer)that when I approached a group of girls they might not necessarily pay attention and might not respond(regardless if they heard me or not). So how do I be sure I get their attention. Also, after I decide which one I am interested in how do I get her into a one on one conversation and isolate her? Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: Approaching groups of women

    Bump................ ...........

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    Default Re: Approaching groups of women

    Dude i thinks......you should approach by high confidence and when you are in the set you should demostrate higher value by margic cards or ESP and best friends test and neg you target about any neg you can apply. About Isolate her you must just ask her friends saying:" Can i borrow your friends for a minutes" and they will say its up to her or they will agree. Gee bra

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    Default Re: Approaching groups of women

    mmm... I dont really think magic its a good idea, Im telling you because I'm a magician as well, but I've discovered that magic is such a huge dhv, that its way too much impression for her. So after you open with magic, you keep talking and then they start to lose your attention (or maybe not if you have very strong game and you can entertain them with something else)

    Im not saying that you Mystik should try on magic tho, but be careful with what you do. I've discovered that I open normally asking something, like "Hey girls, how much fun are you having tonight from 1 to 10? they respond and then you say well lets make it a 12! (then you transition) How do you guys know each other? bla bla bla so guys, have you seen magic live? and you keep going

    Try not opening straight up with magic. In cases I still do, not as many as I used to, but I do it with very very small tricks, not the good ones, use the good ones for the end, a good example for a close combined with magic(of course she has to give you the correct amount of IOIs before you do it) its the Kiss Routine.

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    Um......margic tricks will help you to neg the targert and it will help you to use cocky funny,because one trick of margic will makes them to want more......but be carefully don't listern to them "do only 2 tricks" and cut them to kill the set.gee!

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    Default Re: Approaching groups of women

    bump, any other tips here? multiple women are definitely harder to talk to than a woman by herself.

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    Default Re: Approaching groups of women

    That's a common misconception. Women in groups will often be more friendly because they have the comfort of their friends right by them in case you do anything creepy.

    Yes, eye contact immediately with huge smile. Situations create different strategies for opening and I can't write a full guide on that, but rule of thumb is you either open group as whole or a single girl. Very quickly have her introduce you to everyone else in group. Smile, shake hands. Then focus on your girl.

    How to Isolate is a combo of how interested she is in you and what your reason is for isolating. It can be as simple as "I want to show you something" or "come over here" if she likes you or more based on reason if she doesn't like you "let's dance" or "it's too loud right here" or "we can sit comfortably over there" or "let's get a drink"
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    Default Re: Approaching groups of women

    I prefer to just chat with my target right away. Acknowledge the other girls in the set if they try to jump in of course but not if you dont need to. Usually if you're making your target laugh or smile they other girls will not try to cockblock.

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    Default Re: Approaching groups of women

    I approach the whole table and stand/sit next to the target. I then introduce myself with a smile to the entire table without focussing on the target at all. Usually one or two girls, the bubbly ones, will try continue the conversation. I chat to them a bit to build rapport and reveal a few details about myself that dhv but it's fairly difficult to entertain a whole group well for long so as small talk dies down I then turn to my target, who is of course right next to me, and begin flirting. It feels more natural. There may be a case where a non target talks to you too much. Gently pan her off and talk to the target. Phones can come in handy 'hey it's great to meet all of you, lets take a photo' (Then plant your arm around target for Kino and look at photos afterwards - faces close together etc - Number Close). I find it better to gain rapport with the group first. I'm not as good going up to a girl in a group directly and often there may be several targets in the group I like so doing the whole group allows me to find out which ones are more responsive. If a table is completely non engaging I quickly move on. Sometimes I've approached a group or an individual girl who has initially shown no interest whatsoever yet later does show interest after I end up having a great time with another table. Such is life.

    There are other ways. Wait until target leaves group to go to the toilet or bar. Catch eye contact and becon her over to you. Go directly to her friend and ask to be introduced if she is hard to reach directly. 'Merge' tables - sit next to them and casual intrude their table 'whats that your drinking, looks good?!', 'are you watching the game up there on TV? What team do you girls support?' 'whats with this huge pile of handbags bumping into my back!!', use time constraints and change of venues 'Hey my friends are going over to another bar right now but I wanted to quickly come and say hello'.

    The same applies if there are men in the group. Gain rapport with them to gain access to their female friends. In fact I will butter up the men to win their trust like a Trojan horse 'Hey buddy what beer is that?', 'I like your bike jacket, where did you get it?' then move onto the girls, or, use the men to gather more intel on the girls before making a move on the target.

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    Default Re: Approaching groups of women

    Quote Originally Posted by r0cky View Post
    I prefer to just chat with my target right away. Acknowledge the other girls in the set if they try to jump in of course but not if you dont need to. Usually if you're making your target laugh or smile they other girls will not try to cockblock.
    Yup. Simple as that. Approach your target first, if you do get cockblocked then engage the mother hen. When you make the mother hen laugh you have gained the acceptance of the whole group, so you move on to your target.


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