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    Artisan Guest

    Default Approach During the Day & Destroy Your AA

    So I was at college campus a few years back doing some approaches and I started getting really in my head. You know that feeling where you see a girl you want to approach but your brain starts going a million miles an hour and your body just shuts down and won't let anything come out of your mouth. Yeah most people call this dreaded phenomenon Approach Anxiety.

    But then I thought, "does approach anxiety really exist?" and decided to just go up to girls and ask them where the science building was or where the nearest Starbucks was. That was really really easy to do…and in no time I was approaching! Was I using a clever pickup line or cool opener….no of course not, but I was approaching every cute girl I saw with ease. So, if you feel like you have approach anxiety just start going up to girls and ask for directions or the time or whatever you want and you will see how easy it really is to approach anyone.

    So now you're probably thinking `ok genius that's easy but where the hell do I go from there?' Well that's easy you can take it where every you want to take it…either direct or indirect. Here are two examples:

    Direct Version:
    Me: "Excuse me, do you know where the nearest Starbucks is?"
    Her: "Ya its just past that building"
    Me: "Oh thanks…well actually I don't really want coffee I just wanted to flirt
    with you. My names Artisan"
    Her: "Haha my names…"

    Indirect Version:
    Me: "Excuse me, do you know where the nearest Starbucks is?"
    Her: "Ya its just past that building"
    Me: "Ok cool thanks, hey one more quick question (time constraint) this is kinda random (pacing) but I need a female opinion on something, maybe you could help me out real quick (time constraint)…."

    Some people might call the Starbucks thing a "pre opener" because it is used to get the women comfortable with the idea of you talking to her. It's something that is very socially acceptable during the day and makes whatever you say next hit better. Remember during the day people are in their own little worlds and they aren't used to strangers talking to them so the pre opener just creates some small social comfort before you use your direct or indirect line. Its really great for getting out of your head and get into a social state where you feel totally normal and at ease talking to random people in public.

    -Artisan

  2. #2
    Mystery_wannabe Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by Artisan View Post
    So I was at college campus a few years back doing some approaches and I started getting really in my head. You know that feeling where you see a girl you want to approach but your brain starts going a million miles an hour and your body just shuts down and won't let anything come out of your mouth. Yeah most people call this dreaded phenomenon Approach Anxiety.

    But then I thought, "does approach anxiety really exist?" and decided to just go up to girls and ask them where the science building was or where the nearest Starbucks was. That was really really easy to do…and in no time I was approaching! Was I using a clever pickup line or cool opener….no of course not, but I was approaching every cute girl I saw with ease. So, if you feel like you have approach anxiety just start going up to girls and ask for directions or the time or whatever you want and you will see how easy it really is to approach anyone.

    So now you're probably thinking `ok genius that's easy but where the hell do I go from there?' Well that's easy you can take it where every you want to take it…either direct or indirect. Here are two examples:

    Direct Version:
    Me: "Excuse me, do you know where the nearest Starbucks is?"
    Her: "Ya its just past that building"
    Me: "Oh thanks…well actually I don't really want coffee I just wanted to flirt
    with you. My names Artisan"
    Her: "Haha my names…"

    Indirect Version:
    Me: "Excuse me, do you know where the nearest Starbucks is?"
    Her: "Ya its just past that building"
    Me: "Ok cool thanks, hey one more quick question (time constraint) this is kinda random (pacing) but I need a female opinion on something, maybe you could help me out real quick (time constraint)…."

    Some people might call the Starbucks thing a "pre opener" because it is used to get the women comfortable with the idea of you talking to her. It's something that is very socially acceptable during the day and makes whatever you say next hit better. Remember during the day people are in their own little worlds and they aren't used to strangers talking to them so the pre opener just creates some small social comfort before you use your direct or indirect line. Its really great for getting out of your head and get into a social state where you feel totally normal and at ease talking to random people in public.

    -Artisan
    email me to sarge in OC and LA
    mattardisson@yahoo.c om
    I'm curious, would telling the girl you want to flirt with her in a day game communicate too much interest? Why is this not raising any flags for her?

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    Wannabe_Mystery, that is the primary difference between direct and Indirect Game.

    In indirect game, you don't want them to know that you are attracted to them until you have already built some attraction and setup some status for yourself, in their eyes.

    Direct Game, works differently. By being very confident and direct, it works for two reasons:
    1. You catch them off guard because no one is ever that direct with them.
    2. It shows incredible confidence.

    Direct game takes less verbal work, but a heck of a lot more physical and fashion related work. You will likely bomb out more often with Direct game, but it has the advantage of letting you know almost instantly, if you are going to be able to close the girl or not.


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