Re: What is this being an A-hole ?
Yes you want to be an A-hole as Nice Guys finish last. Don't be a total A-hole but a Nice Guy with a bad boy edge. Basically you want the best of both worlds as too much of a prick will push girls away just as fast. Me being a total A-hole has got me rejected many a time but being a little bit of this and a little bit of that gets me rather far. This is the art of calibration in tempering your persona with both elements and using the element you would work best for that situation as sometimes you get rejected for being too soft or being too rough so you have to calibrate it so you are not caught stuck in a pattern. Either heartless A-hole openers have worked wonders but so have hopeless romantic openers. This translates to heartless/indifferent comments and nice guy comments. Essentially you should be 80% nice guy and 20% A-hole. Also being indifferent is all the rage these days in Video Game characters so I derive much inspiration from that and think indifference if exercised at the right times will get you Alpha Male status and give you a badass quality to yourself.
"It is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are." -Mewtwo