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Thread: The magic "I". Women that only want to talk about themselves

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    Default The magic "I". Women that only want to talk about themselves

    How do you deal with the girls that only want to talk about themselves?

    Ex: me: what did mr. Blah blah say?

    Girl: he said this but I did this
    Girl; ( continues) it reminded me of this time when my mom did this and she pretty much pissed me off

    Me: ok

    Her: yeah but she can be such a b1tch sometimes like I can't even begin to tell you how much she's a b1tch


    That's just an example but how do I deal with women that always use "I" and doesn't really care what you have to say? They just want to talk just to fill that tiny whole of insacurity inside?
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    Default Re: The magic "I". Women that only want to talk about themselves

    People love to talk about themselves. Even those who won't direct the topics to themselves still love it. We are always our favorite topics.

    I would expand on what they say. Similar to general conversation advice, focus on feelings, emotions, and experiences.
    "Oh that sounds so frustrating you must be a very patient person..."
    or something like that.

    Calling out their traits too will get them to either say yes, or admit faults (likely with the insecure self-centered people). If they're really frustrating you and you want to challenge them (not necessarily for pickup but more for frame control) make the traits difficult to achieve "OMG you sound like the most patient person in the world," or something they'll certainly have to say no to.
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    Default Re: The magic "I". Women that only want to talk about themselves

    Yeah I want to do frame control just because I hate people like that. So how do I astablish frame control to piss them off??
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    Default Re: The magic "I". Women that only want to talk about themselves

    Pick the trait they're bragging about and ask them to clarify telling them how wonderful they are

    Be careful tho, if you show frustration you lose the frame

    To win, you have to ask her positively like you're impressed, tell her how great she must be because of xxx she just told you, but make it a little greater than most people are so that she has to admit she's not.
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    Default Re: The magic "I". Women that only want to talk about themselves

    I do that and she says " I know I'm not that great at xxxxxxx" and then she goes back to talking about herself.

    Like she's the ultimate talker designed to kill vibes.
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    Default Re: The magic "I". Women that only want to talk about themselves

    Women are going to talk about themselves more often then not. If you hate it you're missing the point. If someone is willing to talk about themselves then you should be encouraging it. The more she talks about herself the less you have to come up with material and the more comfortable she'll be with you.

    Why do you want to talk about yourself anyways? You know yourself better than you know her and the less she knows about you the more mysterious you appear which is best for your game.

    So what's the problem?
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    Default Re: The magic "I". Women that only want to talk about themselves

    It's not a girl that I'm trying to game. Lol it's probably me just b1tching.
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