Hello fellow alphas. I've made some breakthroughs with the help of this great forum, but now I'm in a chaotic state.
To keep things short, I've fallen for a girl (see my day game. Blanked out. thread) and essentially things have kinda fallen appart when my date didn't go so well with her. We still have this chemistry going on even after the date has failed and again through the help of gunsnglory and Instinct, I've basically come to the conclusion that there's a high possibility that I'm being gamed by her.
Some time pass and I was inspired by Carlos Xuma I believe who sent an email saying something on the lines of "most guys never Kino hard enough to even reach near the girl's threshold" so I wanted to be a bit advantageous and I tried kinoing her a little harder (I know she's supposed to be a pivot, but it can't hurt right?) So basically it was raining that day and I grabbed her shoulder with my arm around her. The reaction was instant and the next 2-3 days she seemed very attracted to me (she would tug my shirt) and act cute infront of me. It seemed genuine to me. So I thought this was great, but I'm worried about what Instinct and gunsnglory had discussed so I stopped and all of a sudden things started going off track she'd go off to have lunch with her new founded female friend leaving me alone. Here's where I feel I'm not quite alpha. I couldn't seem to build any rapport with her new female friend and we weren't introduced properly so I feel we've been disconnected.
After gaming her for about 3-4 months, I'm starting to feel attachment to her and I'm worried that I've fallen deeper than I thought I had.
What would an alpha do to make the best out of the situation?