Re: How do I connect with a girl?
Well let's examine a few things here mate.
Your living situation sucks. Sounds like some potential drama going on there and I wouldn't want to bring girls there either due to jealous roomates, drama, etc. But you can still pull it off I guess I have pulled it off with girls in my room when I was in a farked up situation when I was 19 and my roomates let everyone and their brother move in. In the end a lot of drama 5 people in a 2 bedroom downstairs basement that had a kitchen. Super dirty but my girl at the time was in love with so I didn't care nor did she and tried to have sex with me while my roomates were in the other room.
Get the fark out. I cannot tell you how times I have been lied too, stolen from, betrayed by best friends, roommates, etc. You only want to live with family or people you can really trust. This is why I moved back in at home sure I can't pull girls there because I am living with my family with a Religious upbringing but I have a killer little game room. Plus I love having my own room and coming home and not being drilled about where I was, what I ate, who I am dating. Surprisingly my family is less invasive than my best friend ex-roommate. He got jealous and said I couldn't bring girls there. But he brought home guys yeah I know really farked up so this is actually better for me. Even though I am 30 living at home I love because I can still have a GF just not bring her home per say but can be less restricted by drama if she wants to hang out there during the day.
Well just get out. You can stay as long as you can but try to get because this will really hurt your inner game since you have a bad living situation which will cause stress to your Outer Game which hurts your Inner Game when you go out. So essentially just approach girls less than you really want, still approach and hang out but you got to try to pull it off at their place which is possible to sustain a relationship and eventually move out and live single as this is the best option for a PUA. Less drama=more play. So keep that in mind but don't spend all your money going out finding girls and dating because you need those funds to move out and get your own place. This is why guys living single with their own place have the most advantage for meeting women since that is the most advantageous situation. Check back for Project Iceshield Part 2 as it talks more about this in the future.
This is why I wrote up Iceshield because I realized unlike what "women" say online about "not living with Mom" I do it anyway and thanks to that I just bought a Tv, a 3DS, a couple of games, and got some new diggs. Basically I just got $1,000 worth of crap in the last 3 months just for having no rent. Imagine for a second I was "living" the way "women" wanted without my Mom and never successfully brought them home once and did 75 sets this year! Sure towards the end I stopped trying due to my bad Outer Game but my Inner Game is pretty solid. Essentially I was confused because I was living on my own but girls never wanted to come over and never asked who I lived with. Living situation never even came up and I dated this girl for a month dating her. This is why now I realized and seen the light that towards the end I started up front asking my ex-roommate if I could bring girls in because I started getting numbers every weekend from HB9's so towards the end of our lease my ex-roommate started getting really jealous. Asking if my sunglasses belong to some "b!tch" saying girls couldn't sit on the couch if they came over because that was sacred and he did it with guys in his bed then he told me I had to do it on the hardwood floor. I was so pissed that my best friend wanted me to be like an animal and he lived like a king. I didn't have my own bed and used his hid-a-bed and then he goes and sells it like it means nothing. He was in love with me and I told him I might not come home some nights because I was getting farther with girls from the Bars & Clubs to outside the Bars & Clubs and starting to escalate and he got all butthurt when I said that. This story shows you HOW your Outer Game ie living situation can hurt your inner game. I was afraid to escalate because I feared the whiplash of my roommate after I would send a text like "hey going home with a girl tonight!" he always wanted to know if I was coming home like he was my Momma and that's how it hurt my inner game.
On that note now that I live at home I can't bring girls to stay the night or when they are gone but they can hang out during the day if they are my GF something that never happened with my ex-roommate so not only am I saving money with no rent but also have a little more freedom. My mom said she doesn't care what happens as long as I tell her I might not come home that night she is happy because I am a grown man. Man I love my mom! I can hookup and as long as not at my place and not worry. Granted it is her place. But more on this to come much to discuss.
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