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Thread: Need help to keep it fun and lighthearted with Girls at work.

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    Default Need help to keep it fun and lighthearted with Girls at work.

    Here's my story.

    We have a new girl at my job who's friendly and very easy to approach, so a few week back I approach her and ask her name, introduce myself, blah,blah, just small talk and eject. Ever since i did that we always said hi to each other when I see her. Last week she caught me off-guard when she approach me and start the conversation. I don't remember the exact details but I remember that after the first couple of line. I teased her with "well i guess we have to think of a punishment for you". This is a great hook, because she quickly ask me what her punishment would be(awesome opportunity). Sadly I couldn't think of anything on the spot so I switch the topic.

    I'm not trying to F-close her, but would very much like to use her to practice my game to get better at banter, and building rapport with women. Any ideas on how to carry the conversation after you open target?

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    Default Re: Need help to keep it fun and lighthearted with Girls at work.

    Show up @ my house with nothing but bra & pantie's on.

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    Default Re: Need help to keep it fun and lighthearted with Girls at work.

    Could just build Tension with it.

    I've become accustomed not to truly answer women directly in response to their question. I would've said. "You're being really naughty, so It'll have to be something that fits your actions. I'll think about it..." (touch her behind her arm, smile, and walk away).

    A little mystery can go a long way. She'll probably initiate later on because of this: "So what's my punishment". "I don't know if you can handle my kind of punishment missy, but we'll talk about it over a drink after work".
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    Default Re: Need help to keep it fun and lighthearted with Girls at work.

    To quote Jeffy 'get more girls'. If you're really worried about how to make this work, you haven't learned enough to make it work.

    Approach thousands of girls outside of your work place. Then you'll know how to make it work . (Although by then you probably won't care about the girl at your workplace anymore, because you'll have 100x the options).

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    Default Re: Need help to keep it fun and lighthearted with Girls at work.

    Gaming girls at work is easy. You always have access to them in some form. If you make mistakes, you could just be busy for a couple days in order to get her to forget.

    Coworkers see you more than anyone really so just take your time. If you did anything well at all, she will reengage at some point. Recovering from awkward convos is totally not hard
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    Default Re: Need help to keep it fun and lighthearted with Girls at work.

    Girls at work are the easiest to mess with and build Tension with man!
    Next time you see her if she's being quiet just walk up to her and be like "oh my god (girls name) do you ever stop talking?!?" she'll smile and just walk away.
    Or if she messes up on something be like "You're such a clutz (girls name) I can't have girls in my life that are a clutz."
    or if she tells you something funny just laugh and tell her you hate her and walk away. Literally you can pretty much say or do anything you want because you're going to run into them again eventually and they'll totally forgive you if you said something awkward or dumb.

    But simply, just tease them and be playful! Sh1t Test them to death. Literally the easiest thing ever.

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    Default Re: Need help to keep it fun and lighthearted with Girls at work.

    Woah woah woahhhh! Let's not forget the extremely important factor in this entire situation:

    THE BOSS

    You do not want to be caught using company hours to pick up girls. That's the quickest way to get written up. In addition, you have to be careful about how word spreads from booth to booth. You can easily develop a reputation in the office that is hard to shake off.

    Do what you want with pursuing this girl. Some great advice has already been given. But no matter what you do with her or with any other woman, keep it out of the workplace. Work should be a time to focus on keeping your job.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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