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    Default Need help with "you're a stranger" reponse

    So this one time I was chatting with a cute girl. We both introduced ourselves. I asked where she was from and she said she's from California. Then she said to me "how about you, stranger"?

    She called me a stranger?

    I told her I'm from Disneyland.. then went on with a joke. I made her laughed so hard she replied and said "Wow, you entertained me. Great sense of humor". I immediately said to her "Let me get your number"? Then she paused for like 10 minutes without any reply! After 10 minutes was over she told me "No can't do that..you're still a stranger". Then the conversation just ends here.

    I think my mistake is I gave her too much time to think about it only to came back with an excuse. I thought doing a Number Close because it was fairly safe when she got a good laughed out of my joke. But I guess that didn't work.

    Can somebody offer some pointers and how to deal with 'you're a stranger' type of response?

    Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: Need help with "you're a stranger" reponse

    You should've said she is a stranger too... Or tell her " well guess it's going to be a big challenge for you then" ( that wouldve probably put the ball in your court and make you the leader again.
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    Default Re: Need help with "you're a stranger" reponse

    I'm going to use that Disneyland line haha. See in my opinion, it seems as if she was just playing, therefore you should have played back.

    This HB called me a stranger last year over facebook almost in the same way this girl was referring to you, only difference is that I responded with "yea and you're a loser, yet here I am, talking to you." She laughed and didn't have a comeback so I won that round. If this thread is online, than take your time with a Number Close. If you have a reliable way of communication, than there isn't an immediate need for another one.
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    Default Re: Need help with "you're a stranger" reponse

    You were supposed to be building attraction alongside "been entertaining"

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    Default Re: Need help with "you're a stranger" reponse

    Well that's the trick see dun dun dun sh!t test. She busted your balls and essentially she won. This is a test of inner strength here (ie Inner Game) whenever girls do this. They are checking for your reaction. You got by with the humorous remark but she pulled the trigger again because she wanted to see if you were bluffing or could hold your frame. The answer is simple you lost frame control and she came out victorious.

    The way to win see is play them at their own dirty little games. Disneyland line? Pass. No comeback for sh!t testing you a second time on the stranger thing? Epic Fail.

    This was so easy man she practically gave it to you.

    "I'm a stranger till you get to know me WINK"
    "We can just be friends!" (Hot & Cold, PING TEST)
    "You already know something about me silly."

    So many places you could have gone with it by like most guys girls know guys are a lot of times One Trick Ponies. You had no other Aces up your Inner Game sleeve and she caught you red handed. Get some good comebacks and you're set (comes from reference experiences of passing sh!t tests and breaking down iceshields which I have had my fair share). But the trick is they always sh!t test you differently different girls say different things. It's not what you say it's what you're saying when you handle it. So handle it.
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    Default Re: Need help with "you're a stranger" reponse

    Quote Originally Posted by mackdaddyjacK View Post
    Well that's the trick see dun dun dun sh!t test. She busted your balls and essentially she won. This is a test of inner strength here (ie Inner Game) whenever girls do this. They are checking for your reaction. You got by with the humorous remark but she pulled the trigger again because she wanted to see if you were bluffing or could hold your frame. The answer is simple you lost frame control and she came out victorious.

    The way to win see is play them at their own dirty little games. Disneyland line? Pass. No comeback for sh!t testing you a second time on the stranger thing? Epic Fail.

    This was so easy man she practically gave it to you.

    "I'm a stranger till you get to know me WINK"
    "We can just be friends!" (Hot & Cold, PING TEST)
    "You already know something about me silly."

    So many places you could have gone with it by like most guys girls know guys are a lot of times One Trick Ponies. You had no other Aces up your Inner Game sleeve and she caught you red handed. Get some good comebacks and you're set (comes from reference experiences of passing sh!t tests and breaking down iceshields which I have had my fair share). But the trick is they always sh!t test you differently different girls say different things. It's not what you say it's what you're saying when you handle it. So handle it.
    Thanks I appreciate that. Some girls are stuck up, they already disqualified themselves. How do you deal with that? Say if you throw the 3rd line at her "You already know something about me silly" and she goes "I did?.. I don't recall" attitude.

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    Default Re: Need help with "you're a stranger" reponse

    Lol.
    No comfort.
    Gotta build comfort. This is one of the most important aspects of game. The part where you get to know the girl. A good opener gets your foot in the door, a little Banter sparks some interest, but comfort is what gets you in her bedroom.
    The best way to build comfort...Ask Questions/make statements and listen attentively! There's this thing that happens when you're actually listening. You'll be looking in the girl's eyes while she's chatting away and all of a sudden her pupils will dilate and this stream of sexual energy will flow between you. It's on. All you have to do now is sexuality escalate and move to the seduction location. If logistics prevent this, get the contact info, hang out a while longer and cement that number, then move on.

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    Default Re: Need help with "you're a stranger" reponse

    A girl may light at attraction phase if you hit hrd on.too much of that and you may end up in the friend zone.may tread cautiously.

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    Default Re: Need help with "you're a stranger" reponse

    You can never have too much comfort.
    You can have too little interest/attraction, compliance, and escalation.

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    Default Re: Need help with "you're a stranger" reponse

    MiikusMaximus has a point...
    A girl absolutely has to feel comfortable enough to give you her number.... or just be balls-to-the-wall attracted to you!

    You went for the number waaaay too soon.
    It's like buying a drink at the bar, immediately after you say "hello".

    You have to build attraction more than anything... and just enough comfort to put her at ease.

    But the thing is, don't give a crap about the number.... just be FUN! And more times than not, SHE will just GIVE you her number without you even asking.

    My latest technique has been pushing the escalation little by little & NOT going for the number.... because I can tell when she wants MINE.

    When that happens, I just keep doing what I've been doing... and still don't go for it...
    It's gets to be too much for her & she ends up giving up the digits.

    So, what I'm saying is, sit back & relax... don't be too eager for ONE girl's number.


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