Tips on flirting in a very flirty workplace
I started part-time work at a 'Tilted Kilt' (Search it, seriously). It's expected of the waitresses to spend time with customers, err "guests", while barbacks (me) and bussers do the majority of the regular server duties when it comes to table-side work.
I'm assuming this place will have a range of guests with varying degrees of PUA ability so I'm going to try and be dynamic and fun with my responses/approaches as usual, but are there any sort of tips or material you can recommend for this situation?
A) I don't want to catch the women coming out of a flirty guest situation and have me look stale by doing the same interaction with me. Guests are asking the same questions I might, so should I focus more on being playful and witty, than "OH COOL WHAT SCHOOL DO YOU GO TO?" type of bullshit?
B) Sometimes chicks try and push boundaries. "Clean my table bitch!" (Playful, but I feel I need to rebel) so I'll say, "I don't take orders from you missy!", and walk past the table to clean it a couple of minutes later. - Is this a good approach?
C) I've already had a couple of fun encounters:
i) Certain women gravitate to me almost as if I'm magnetized when I'm nearby.
ii) Certain women touch me, grab me, etc, while laughing joking
iii) One woman told me we are going to have beautiful children one day and she's going to be my wife
iv) I constantly make assumptions about my manhood (Easy since I'm wearing a kilt and it's a convesation piece). Ex: (Jokingly, pretending I'm not there) "That barback is such a dick!" as a joke, so I said "Yeah, I heard he's all dick!" lol
SO, I'm not doing bad, but I would like some outside input.
Discovering PUA one step at a time.
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