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  1. #1
    kal07 Guest

    Default might meet with BF?

    Hello Guys, I need your help ASAP. I have a friend girl. We meet for some time. Last time I invited her in theater as she likes literature. I called her one week before the event, but she said she might be busy as she was prepairing for exam test - she told me to contact next week to adjust things. I called her, and asked what she decided. She said no, unfortunatelly I was tired and made a mistake, I asked her why she dont want to come, whether she was not interested it, or something else? She answered she did not like that theater very much, and maybe she might meet her boyfriend at the weekend. - boyfriend? I didnt have a clue about it before. OK. I didnt answer anything for a while, then I sad: OK, so have a good time for studying..., bye. Might meet with BF? It sounds very strange. Going to... ,is OK, but might...? I recognized I made a mistake. So later the day, I sent a text message to her: "There is no problem you have a BF, we can organize programs together, moreover, you should come together, maybe we could make friends! Contact me if you have time." She replied in a minute: "I didnt mean, I have BF then we cant meet, just he lives in a distinct city we can only meet at the weekends, so we might see eachother this saturday." I sent: "OK, so we can meet weekdays to, tomorrow?" "OK, we can meet, but this week is not proper for me, early next week." "So Thuesday?" "OK, lets talk Monday" I wonder why she said she has BF, unless its a game! There was no indication she has one at all. This is Monday. I dont know what to do. Should I text/call her or not. Can you tell me what should I do? What do you suggest? Thanks.

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    Instinct Guest

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    Step 1...S-P-A-C-E--O-U-T--Y-O-U-R--M-E-S-S-A-G-E-S..

    Step 2. How long have you known her and how did you meet her?

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    kal07 Guest

    Default Re: might meet with BF?

    Sorry for space.

    I know her for a long time, because she is daughter of one of my friends . She was very young when I first met her, it was 5 years ago. Now we are meeting regularly for about 3 month in the city she is university student.

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    Instinct Guest

    Default Re: might meet with BF?

    Quote Originally Posted by kal07 View Post
    Sorry for space.

    I know her for a long time, because she is daughter of one of my friends . She was very young when I first met her, it was 5 years ago. Now we are meeting regularly for about 3 month in the city she is university student.
    I dunno man, I'll let Bill or GnG take this, I've never dated my friends daughters. Off the top of my head, I would say you might be way to far into the friends zone, not to mention creep zone, and anything sexual that starts, will end up taking her away from you, but I have zero experience there.

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    Default Re: might meet with BF?

    how old are you and how old is she?

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    20/32 I know her mother very well, but she is not a close friend.

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    Default Re: might meet with BF?

    Not knowing all the details, this is how I would respond:

    "Cool - see you this weekend. Your BF can keep you busy when I am not around."

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    Bare_Legs Guest

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    Are you interested in this girl? Are you actually pursuing her?

    I'm sorry but I just don't get why you're sounding bothered about the lack of indication that she was seeing someone, or that she MIGHT be seeing him (yes, people use that word if they're not sure of something!) this weekend.

    Go with your other friends! Don't sweat the fact that she could be busy!


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