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    Default Need some deeper topics

    Need some advice
    Right now i am trying to build a relationship with this cute girl. She is very nice and she actually cares about people. She hasn't been in a relationship before and she usually spends her time studying, so she is kind of boring, just what i need right now. I have made her start dancing lessons with me at university, so we have been doing that for some time,so i guess we are quite comfortable with each other.

    On the good side:
    - Because of the way we met our relationship is built on us eventually becoming more than friends, if i just manage to do things right.
    - If i asked her out, she would say yes. (kinda did that once, but i didn't follow through)

    On the bad side:
    Progress is quite slow, she is not really the flirting type, so i don't know how to make her melt, i guess things feel kind of formal.

    NOTE: This is the girl that would think, "oh he doesn't like me" even if i showed a small disinterest. i.e She got sad because her roommate didn't keep her door open.
    She really opens up when i get her drinking.

    So if you have any advice it is very appreciated!

    Why i really made this post was to ask if you know any deeper topics i could try to talk with her about. Right know we mostly talk about what we do and stuff, but i want to connect with her on a deeper level.
    So yeah Which deeper topics do girls like to talk about?

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    Default Re: Need some deeper topics

    From what I gather from here; your interaction between one another seems quite well mannered and respectful. I'd try negging her slightly if you don't do so already. Also, try and build Kino gradually with her. These things may help with speeding your progress up.

    Deep conversation topics hmmm...
    The topic shouldn't matter. The way you deliver your thoughts when talking is more crucial. Be confident, tease her slightly, genuinely listen to her, keep eye contact (don't check her out when she's talking.)

    If your still stuck on what to say; stick to topics like what she's doing after uni, her first ever gig, TV she can't stand etc. One thing I'd say is keep it funny, whatever you talk about. Too soon into things to be talking deep. By doing this you run the danger of friend oning yourself.

    Hope any of this helps
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    Default Re: Need some deeper topics

    Quote Originally Posted by sherlocki View Post
    Need some advice
    Right now i am trying to build a relationship with this cute girl. She is very nice and she actually cares about people. She hasn't been in a relationship before and she usually spends her time studying, so she is kind of boring, just what i need right now. I have made her start dancing lessons with me at university, so we have been doing that for some time,so i guess we are quite comfortable with each other.

    On the good side:
    - Because of the way we met our relationship is built on us eventually becoming more than friends, if i just manage to do things right.
    - If i asked her out, she would say yes. (kinda did that once, but i didn't follow through)

    On the bad side:
    Progress is quite slow, she is not really the flirting type, so i don't know how to make her melt, i guess things feel kind of formal.

    NOTE: This is the girl that would think, "oh he doesn't like me" even if i showed a small disinterest. i.e She got sad because her roommate didn't keep her door open.
    She really opens up when i get her drinking.

    So if you have any advice it is very appreciated!

    Why i really made this post was to ask if you know any deeper topics i could try to talk with her about. Right know we mostly talk about what we do and stuff, but i want to connect with her on a deeper level.
    So yeah Which deeper topics do girls like to talk about?
    Hey awesome job detailing thesituation. I think your missing a big topic of discussion here. Talk about her hopes and dreams; she/her parents are spending a lot of money on her education find out what does she want to do with it. That is the deeper topic dive into it. Ask her why she wants to do that. Who inspired her to go down this path. If she doesnt like what she is doing than ask her what would she like to be doing.

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    Like what Banner just said..keep things light and fun..what you want is to connect with her on a deeper level right?..so in order to do that you will have to pay attention to what we call her trance words(words that she repeats frequently) and bring them up as your own as you are conversing..another devilish tactic you can use here is to mirror her..LITERALLY..matc h her breathing rate and her gestures when talking with her..if she likes to talk using hands and illustrating..do that..you will CONNECT!!
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    Default Re: Need some deeper topics

    Quote Originally Posted by msa173 View Post
    Hey awesome job detailing thesituation. I think your missing a big topic of discussion here. Talk about her hopes and dreams; she/her parents are spending a lot of money on her education find out what does she want to do with it. That is the deeper topic dive into it. Ask her why she wants to do that. Who inspired her to go down this path. If she doesnt like what she is doing than ask her what would she like to be doing.

    This is great advice msa173! At this point getting her to deeply qualify about things she really cares about with seal the deal with her. That and escalation in an location that sex can take place.
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    Default Re: Need some deeper topics

    Thanks for answers guys, i think this will help quite much
    Going to a today where me and maybe 20 others will party till sunday, will try out these things with some girls and see which responses i get.

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    Goodluck bro and don't forget to update us with feedback on what happened ey
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    Default Re: Need some deeper topics

    Talk about family friends, past regrets. The deeper and sadder the better.

    It doesn't matter whether or not she's flirting with you. She may not know how.

    Have you kissed her? That would be a way to show you are interested in her.


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