one of the skills mentioned over and over again by PUAs is we need to become a leader. We need to be able to lead the girl we want because not only is this attractive, it allows you to have the inititive to close her. However there are those of us who arent firm what we want (I'm one prime example of this) and making choices could be tough as well.
The reason for this is because I'm always worried about the outcome,
eg: what if I win over this guy's gf and he comes back chasing me with a knife?
what would happen to this dude now that I'v stolen his gf away from him?
Should i kiss the girl?
Where should I suggest dinner on our date?
'The worst possible thing a girl could do is blow you off'. These are wise words from a PUA but its not so easy to donif you've already made substantial investments into a girl.
How can we become better leaders knowing that decisions can sometimes be fldifficult to make? How can we not worry about being blown off when we can potentially lose all that we've invested?