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Thread: Severe AA

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    Default Severe AA

    Hey guys, I've been studying attraction for some time now. The only thing thats holding me back is aa, I cannot approach, to save my life. If you offered me 500 bucks to go approach a girl, I wouldnt be able to do it. My AA is more sever than others. I go out every single day, pass hundreds of attractive girls and I cannot approach/ I say I will, but when i see the girl I cannot do it. Telling me to just go do it, doesnt mean anything to me. I never get laid, Im depressed, but when I do out I dont look depressed, im in a good mood. Telling me to stay positive, telling me to not be a pussy and just do it, telling me to find a wingman, go out with friends, wont help me. I dont have any friends, im all alone, cant approach to save my life. Has anyone ever had severe AA, if so, how did you over come it? Thank you.

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    Default Re: Severe AA

    Dude, if you are really depressed you probably need some real psychological help.

    Assuming you are just 'bummed out' about your aa....well yea start working on your inner game. Do affirmations, visualization, whatever gets your confidence up. You should definitely look into getting together with other guys and just going out and socializing. You need to build yourself before the AA can be beat.

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    Default Re: Severe AA

    Here is your opener. "Do you know what time it is?"

    Now, go to a busy place, a mall, go up to someone who is sitting on a bench. That is your target. Doesn't have to be some beautiful girl. Anyone, guy, girl, young, old, gay, straight, black, white or green. It doesn't matter. At this point, your just "priming the pump".

    Walk with your chin up, back straight, SMILE, and say, "Excuse me, do you know what time it is?"

    The rest will happen on it's own.

    Done.

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    Default Re: Severe AA

    I love threads like this. If Fluff talk won't work on you with motivational speeches then I'll just be real. I have never been slapped, gotten into a fight, or had a drink thrown in my face. But I have been pushed away physically, yelled at, had chicks look at me weird and walk away without uttering a word, been shut down, been dissed, been embarrassed but that's just apart of the game I accept it now. You are a lot like Neo always searching but never wanting to break out of the matrix. You want to stay plugged in. But one day I woke up to Noctis my new PUA character and realized I got skills son. I used to have aa still do. AA may be something I struggle with because you got to open right not just open everything. Even if you opened everything you can still suck if you can't close and do mid-game.

    This motivates me to go out. Once I am ready I am going to be hitting the yard again come June. Starting up on a Annual Beer Festival then moving to a July 4th Local Park then an Epic Crazy Weekend of Bars, Club, and a Pool Party. In this Epic Crazy Weekend I will be hitting up Outdoor Malls and Water Parks to game some broads. Then finish up the year with a bunch of random events and maybe another Epic Weekend Blow Out. I used to have AA massively and made it a regular practice to approach in those venues then got good. Still haven't approached much doing day game so that'll be my focus next year. But take it from me it takes practice and eventually you get the hang of it. But yeah I got rejected a lot, failed a lot, and got Oneitis a lot starting out. Now I can approach a 10 without breaking a sweat. Still got inner game issues approaching during the day but working on the area next year by overhauling it and going to go out more during the day to help. But you gotta approach differently depending on the venue and change your game to gauge the target or targets.

    But in the end like Neo you will have to snap out of it and stop sitting in your comfortable little dream world. There is no honor among men who can't approach a fine looking female. You sound too dependant on natural game and would do great if they came up gaming you. Well when you game girls eventually they start approaching you. Been approached once, twice, three times, four times then I just made it happen but frankly those Sets went south pretty fast. My best sets were when I approached the female and it kept my wits about me to game them better. If you got no game then remember most guys don't do this because they rely on situations in their favor of natural game to get women. But it takes a certain kind of Inner Game to know what to do. Once you do the broads help you out cuz now it's all in your head.

    You know fear talk and self doubt of what to say and do. But I just approach and come up with an opener and let the rest take care of itself. Women got it easy because they don't take charge. So you approach the target cuz you are the target seeking man.
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    Default Re: Severe AA

    go to the mall and chat up shop-keepers/cashiers, they get paid to talk to everyone who walks into the store they work at, meaning they can never reject a potential customer, no matter how hot they are, they will talk to you.

    another thing to consider is this: the hotter the girl, the friendlier she will be. (most of the time the social butterflys are the friendliest girls, even though they are hard to game, they will at least talk to almost anyone if they aren't too busy)

    also, having female friends will make the game a lot easier, even if they aren't that pretty, it is always good keeping them around. they give you easy practice and good insights into the female mind. also, they may have better looking friends who they will happily set you up with. (getting set up with a friends friend is how most people find relationships)


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