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Thread: Increase Your Sex Life By At Least 20% (Simple Too)

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    Default Increase Your Sex Life By At Least 20% (Simple Too)

    As a coach, I get asked all the time the different ways an individual can do really well with woman. I get asked, "Is the opener important?" "Should I do more direct vs Indirect Game?" "How long before I can justify __________?" These are great questions, but it really doesn't need to be that complicated. I can explain in a minute to anyone the secrets to having more sex in your life, and how to be better overall with woman. These are the three "philosophies" one must be able to do, but each requires a little work to perfect if you are not comfortable doing any of these things. I will explain them in further detail if people ask questions, but I think I made it as simple as one could for something this complicated. The three points are...

    1. Having the ability to put yourself in front of a girl that you find physically attractive and start an interaction.

    2. Having the ability to have a conversation with someone. That means actively listening and contributing to the interaction.

    3. Possibly the most important of them all. NEVER LEAVE HER SIDE. The only time you are to leave the girl, is when she verbally tells you to leave.

    If you can follow just these three philosophies every time you see a girl that you find attractive, I guarantee your life with woman will be that much better. Of course there is always exceptions to rules, but the normality is this. If you can engrave this thought process, then you will achieve this aspect of your life. The problem is that people think there is more to it then this, but I did more research as to the reasons we all do good with girls and these were the three actions that had the biggest contribution to our lives with woman.

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    Default Re: Increase Your Sex Life By At Least 20% (Simple Too)

    I would disagree with having a "conversation" in the early stages, and never leaving her side.

    Trying to have a full on convo, can often times send a guy straight to the friend zone.
    Keep the subject matter light & focus on playful teasing & bantering.
    Spark curiosity... that equals attraction.

    And never leaving her side, can potentially give the impression of a guy being clingy /needy.

    It actually BUILDS more attraction when you DO leave her side & walk away. It affects her emotionally & subconsciously & causes her to get those nervous butterflies... wondering if you're coming back.

    So when you do, she gets that warming emotional sense of relief & joy. (again, emotional reactions)



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    Default Re: Increase Your Sex Life By At Least 20% (Simple Too)

    This is the reason why most men will not ever fulfill this portion of their lives. If you follow what I wrote, the byproduct is that you will have more woman in your life. More woman in your life will just condition you to know how they think and you will be more comfortable and confident around them. The thoughts of anxiety when pertaining to the opposite sex will disappear. This is why bartenders, club promoters, photographers, filmographers, and anyone working in an industry full of woman has no problems having a lot of sex in their lives. Its because they stop looking at woman as some made-up Goddess from the Sky and just someone that has the same in securities as men. Unless your dream career is to be a coach like me, then one should not need to know the specifics as to why social interactions work with woman. I think we can all agree that if I presented to the average "PUA" or "AFC" two options. One option is knowing all the knowledge there is to woman and the other option is having the ability to have a great sex and relationship lifestyle with the woman YOU want to have that with; I think most men would go with the second option. We only worked so hard for this knowledge because of the second option. If you follow what I wrote, then I will personally guarantee that your life with woman will be better if that is your intention with woman. I have coached for two years now, but put six years of gathering and applying all forms of knowledge pertaining to the dating community. I wish I would have known that all I needed to do was have more woman in my life and the knowledge would come. That is the only reason the term "Natural" exist (I personally hate that term since we are all naturals, its just we have to find the self limiting belief we have from allowing us to achieve our goals with woman. If I had one student that was locked in a room with two hot girls for a year and you had whatever respected dating guru of your preference train someone for two years. I bet the man locked in a room with two hot woman will be more successful when he exits the room. All men need to realize is that its a time investment skillset, just like everything else in life.

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    Default Re: Increase Your Sex Life By At Least 20% (Simple Too)

    Thanks for the "infommercial"

    I think most guys can learn MUCH more on there own from this site than they could from you as a coach.

    Sorry, I just had to call you out on it.

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    Default Re: Increase Your Sex Life By At Least 20% (Simple Too)

    I will never disagree with the thought that someone could learn more from the flood of information on this website and outside of it then from me. I doubt any individual that would claim that they are an expert in this field would disagree with that the thought that this website would have more of an informational contribution to someone then themselves. I am looking to be of assistance, but maybe I came off as trying to sell something. Everyone has their means of trying to achieve the things they want in life. But I feel like we can all agree that we also try to find the most efficient with the least investment way to do anything in life. I tried to give a more hopeful approach to those that are still having dating issues. Woman will be your best coaches, not men.

    Information doesn't lead to confidence, and I think that is what people want when pertaining to a female they find attractive. Confidence is the only thing that can't be taught in life. It has to be learned through competence or doing something over and over again until you never have to think about the subject again. My favorite example is if I gave someone a book on a subject about anything in life, and lets say this book had all known information about the subject your reading about, and lets say you could read and memorize each word in the book,verbatim, within a hour period. After knowing everything about the subject, I then tell you to endeavor into the thing you knew nothing about just an hour earlier and asked you to apply your knowledge to the test. Unless you have conditioned yourself to ignore fear in your life, you are not going to be confident to lets say ride a unicycle or sky dive. This is only gained from applying the knowledge you have. Of course the more you know, the quicker you can be confident as long as you keep applying yourself.

    The only reason I have a job or why any coach has a job is because we are not just communicating information, but also having the ability to see from an external perspective things that you may not see. Also we are that extra motivation for someone that has issues with Approach Anxiety which is generally the first sticking point for up and coming dating experts. Thank you for the reply though Dave and my apologizes for giving the impression that I had some ulterior motives. I just like giving back to the community that changed my life six years ago.

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    Default Re: Increase Your Sex Life By At Least 20% (Simple Too)

    Ehhh...I am going to have to disagree with that third item. I leave women all the time. In some cases it's extremely beneficial, it other cases it's not the right thing to do. That takes social calibration, but to say never is a bit much.

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    Default Re: Increase Your Sex Life By At Least 20% (Simple Too)

    Yea I can see how that one can be read a certain way. I emphasized the subject because men tend to be early ejectors out of a situation they find "awkward", but what I ment was as long as you don't have something else of higher value that needs your time, then you shouldn't leave a girl completely unless she tells you to leave her alone. I think some men tend to take it upon themselves to make that decision for the girl when she never really wanted you to leave. For example, lets say the conversation thread ends randomly because both parties forgot what to say next. Some men would leave during this period, where instead they should either wait until the girl starts the conversation again or you start a new thread for the two of you.

    Another example is when your conversation gets interupted because she has friends that came out of nowhere to say, "Hey." Some men would probably feel uncomfortable during this period, and justify leaving. Again they should have either waited it out until the girl introduced you to the group, or you call the girl out for being rude and not being a good introducer.

    Another is a man has this image that you have to approach every hot girl in a venue to increase your odds of having sex with one. One would say this is true because your playing the numbers game, but if your average time in a set is only thirty minutes before you try getting a girl's number or leaving with her, then I will tell you this. No matter how attractive you are or how amazing your game is, there is no way you are going to compete with the guy that is hanging out with her for two hours. Time investment is a big reason why its hard for anyone to say goodbye to something so easily. The longer we invest ourselves into something, the harder it is for us to justify leaving the subject. The best "PUAs" are those that pre-open a venue and then quickly develop comfort (conversation) and qualification to determine if a girl is a suitable target for yourself. Now that you know that, you can go ahead and just spend as much time with that girl until you have your justification for going back to her/your place to have sex or if its logistically impossible to do that for whatever reason, then getting her phone number and scheduling another time for you guys to meet again when getting the number.

    Obviously there is always exceptions to rules, but thats why they are called the exceptions. Thank you again everyone for giving your insights. This is the only way any of us can grow. Is always getting different perspectives.

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    Default Re: Increase Your Sex Life By At Least 20% (Simple Too)

    Ok, I see your point about the ejecting to quickly part. T-Mal is PUA Allstar here, I still don't know how I'm not a PUA Allstar (not a hater ijs) on this site and I think T-Mal and myself were just protecting our brothers that are still gaining knowledge.

    Otherwise I see your point. Many, many times clients will eject to early and sabotage themselves.

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    Default Re: Increase Your Sex Life By At Least 20% (Simple Too)

    No worries. I don't have the history these members have on this website. Just contributing, but I will also defend any information I put somewhere until I am given a better perspective of a given subject. I would actually like other individuals to give their opinion on this matter as well. Keep it coming

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    Default Re: Increase Your Sex Life By At Least 20% (Simple Too)

    Quote Originally Posted by Suave Kino View Post
    Ok, I see your point about the ejecting to quickly part. T-Mal is PUA Allstar here, I still don't know how I'm not a PUA Allstar (not a hater ijs) on this site and I think T-Mal and myself were just protecting our brothers that are still gaining knowledge.

    Otherwise I see your point. Many, many times clients will eject to early and sabotage themselves.
    How are you not? I swear we had you on the list. I don't know how we missed that. Sorry dude.

    Look, the whole thing about never leaving their side is bullshit. What you're trying to say is that surrounding yourself and gaining comfort with attractive women will make it easier to interact with them. Which is true. But following them around like a puppy dog isn't going to do anyone any favors.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”


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