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    Default I offended a girl that I was planning on asking out!

    So I was talking to a girl on facebook because I haven't seen her around for a while. I have a lot of names for her , and jokingly called her "ho".

    She says "hint hint: no." so I respond with "aight ho" hoping she'd find some humor in it, then I'd be done with the name.

    (Note: I call her "fool" all the time and she has no problem with it)

    She got really offended and sent me a paragraph response about how I was insensitive.

    I think she's being serious.

    Can I resolve this? It really caught me off guard!

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    Default Re: I offended a girl that I was planning on asking out!

    Never call a woman or a girl a ho and never call her a fool either. It's just common sense.

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    Default Re: I offended a girl that I was planning on asking out!

    Lol bro..... smh.... I couldn't stop laughing when I read this. Yeah man don't ever call them that. Now you can still recover but I'm not sure exactly sure how.

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    Default Re: I offended a girl that I was planning on asking out!

    probably tell her u meant it as a joke and maybe u shouldn't call her a ho next time lol just apologise if ur in the wrong (manly trait)

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    Default Re: I offended a girl that I was planning on asking out!

    "Hey it ends now..you not one i get it..most girls aren't..personally i don't see any woman as..

    This wont get the bounty totally off but you can reengage later which is best.you could get something along the lines of that to her.
    Don't say sorry here, cause you waited too long.even though its manly she might think otherwise since you delayed.

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    Default Re: I offended a girl that I was planning on asking out!

    Don't apologize for something you've already done.. Obviously if you said it you must have had a reason to say it( in this case you were just playing around.) so just say " hey I thought you could've taken a joke but guess I was wrong, well hit me up when you realized that it was all a joke ms.cranky" ( some cheeky nickname)
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: I offended a girl that I was planning on asking out!

    Probably just messing with you, or testing you. Or maybe she 's serious, and she doesn't think about it as a test, but it is a test.

    Simply because you're being tested.

    "I say 'ho' only with the utmost respect".

    How about this: "Oh, sorry. That was totally insensitive of me. I should have known you never call a girl that... in second person."

    She might not get it (don't know if she's clever), but probably let's you get away with it. It's a good excuse to get to know each other a little better. :-)

    Do not break frame. I repeat: do not break frame! She's flipping out over you playfully using the word ho. She's coming to your world, you're definitely not going to hers. WE DO NOT ALLOW YOU, hear that?

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    Default Re: I offended a girl that I was planning on asking out!

    Personally, I would never use words like "ho" even if you meant it in jest. Some girls will completely disregard you forever (talking from experience..lol)
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: I offended a girl that I was planning on asking out!

    If one thinks that the word ho is ok just replace that with the c word in your brain and run the sentence through your head.

    In most contexts it equates out to a very bad idea either way.

    Second point you never want a girl you are gaming to feel like a slut, they develop many defenses to prevent that at all costs so calling them ho or slut usually just makes everything way worse if you try to back pedal you will encounter mor s*it tests, bitch shields and LMR which are all integral parts of ASD
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: I offended a girl that I was planning on asking out!

    Just say to her that you are genuinely sorry, and realise it was a foolish joke, and that you promise not to do it again.

    Say it sincerely, and then stick to your word to not speak to her like that.
    No guaruntees, but there is a fair chance she will speak to you again.
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