Re: Here we go again with the Buckle "Indoor Mall" Report
Will be posting if I make any progress with this broad over the next upcoming weeks and months. The reason I say this is because I don't do instant closes on Hired Guns as they play dirty and get spooked easily. I like to feel these ones out and weed them out if need be. Essentially I will be updating if I decide to close her. Will probably go for the classic Facebook close then a little while after close her on her number. The reason I am doing it this way is because of the things I learned with the Bartenders.
I don't have time to get into too much detail but basically I can go up and instant N-close the girls in the Bars, Clubs, Concerts, Beer Festivals, etc. But for Hired Guns I deploy a different tactic than instant closing because I know even I don't dhv, show social proof, etc I have no value to them and they will just reject me flat out. This is why I have to play them a little differently. I got one Bartender on FB, then another on FB & later her #, then a Cocktail Waitress on FB. So you see I played these a little differently because they are not as easy to close as a Bar Fly or Club Rat. Hired Guns bring out the big guns so I am going in rock steady.
Another thing when Laura from the Buckle the HB9.5 Dream Girl yelled at me, screamed she was not interested at me when I said I would see her soon, turned me down for her number, I was just so AFC and stalking, obsessed, etc. So I wanted to know how to handle it. I did a little better with an HB7 who was hitting on me in the Buckle who worked there but asked for her number at the register when she was ringing me up and she got way creeped out and completely ignored the comment I did to N-close. So either way I keep getting embarrassed when I try to pick up a Buckle chick due to all the social pressure. So I think I am going to try my FB method on this new one and report how it goes. The reason I waited on the Bartenders is because this builds rapport and helps my chances which really did because the more I would frequent the local and talk to the targets on a regular basis every time I saw them I got more and more IOI's until they closed me, I closed them, or they tried to hookup with me. As you can see this is a good method of tilling the soil. So I will focus on tilling the soil with this new one and work on closing the target when the time is right.
It took me 8 months till one Bartender finally FB closed me, then a couple of weeks with the new bartender because I had instant social proof by already being a regular and knowing all the Bartenders. I showed instant Social Proof to the new Bartender created a jealously plotline immediately and then FB closed her the same night I met her. She was very receptive. The next time I saw her I n-closed her successfully which was a first. This was because I had instant social proof with the other Bartenders to raise my value and close the new Bartender. The old Bartender was like a point person who I wasn't finally comfortable with to close till she closed me 8 months later. Just depends and I don't know how long this one will take but no pressure as quality over quantity and no sense in rushing in to get shut down.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.