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Thread: What to do with narcissist bitches

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    Default What to do with narcissist bitches

    Last night, I was planning to meet with my best friends and his new classmates. Before that, we just had some drink with some of my other friends and we joined to my best friends. There was 3 girl and 2 guys in the group, besides my best friend. On of the guy went home pretty early, the other guytalked to my a lot - but of course, I wanted to talk to the girls - they were all hot.

    The night went pretty surreal. Everybody talked about the major they learn about - I learn a completely different thing, so I wasn't really able to say anything about what the group was taling about. That's why I started to ask the girl next to me about what she was planning to do if she finished this major. This girl was actually pretty rude, didn't really respond, didn't give a shit what I asked or said. I asked what she was planning to do if she finished college, what was her dream work when she was a kid, what's her future plan - so I pretty much only tried to force her to talk about herself. But she only said she didn't want to answer, she didn't know me so she didn't give a fuck and shits like that.

    We went to another bar, I sat down next to another girl from the group - she was pretty hot, too. I started to ask questions I asked from the previous girl - what is her future plan, why she applied to this major - but I got pretty much the same answers. She didn't care, why she would answer, she didn't know me at all. I wanted to get to know her, asked her to say 3 things about herself, she think important to know about, but she didn't answer at all.

    I know, bitches like that should be just left, but these were classmates of my best friend, and it was me who joined their group. So my question is: what would you do in situation like that? I would definitely just left girls like that if we meet in a bar in a different situation- just like I did in the very same night, when I approach a girl, who seemed nice but it didn't worked out - but it was a group that belonged to my best friend. I joined them, so I wasn't able to just leave. What would you did in my situation?

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    Default Re: What to do with narcissist bitches

    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Taylor View Post
    Last night, I was planning to meet with my best friends and his new classmates. Before that, we just had some drink with some of my other friends and we joined to my best friends. There was 3 girl and 2 guys in the group, besides my best friend. On of the guy went home pretty early, the other guytalked to my a lot - but of course, I wanted to talk to the girls - they were all hot.

    The night went pretty surreal. Everybody talked about the major they learn about - I learn a completely different thing, so I wasn't really able to say anything about what the group was taling about. That's why I started to ask the girl next to me about what she was planning to do if she finished this major. This girl was actually pretty rude, didn't really respond, didn't give a sh1t what I asked or said. I asked what she was planning to do if she finished college, what was her dream work when she was a kid, what's her future plan - so I pretty much only tried to force her to talk about herself. But she only said she didn't want to answer, she didn't know me so she didn't give a fark and sh1ts like that.

    We went to another bar, I sat down next to another girl from the group - she was pretty hot, too. I started to ask questions I asked from the previous girl - what is her future plan, why she applied to this major - but I got pretty much the same answers. She didn't care, why she would answer, she didn't know me at all. I wanted to get to know her, asked her to say 3 things about herself, she think important to know about, but she didn't answer at all.

    I know, bitches like that should be just left, but these were classmates of my best friend, and it was me who joined their group. So my question is: what would you do in situation like that? I would definitely just left girls like that if we meet in a bar in a different situation- just like I did in the very same night, when I approach a girl, who seemed nice but it didn't worked out - but it was a group that belonged to my best friend. I joined them, so I wasn't able to just leave. What would you did in my situation?

    Well sorry but you were like a lost puppy dog that needed some pity and they weren't not ample and willing (sometimes this frame works when it's from the right frame of non-neediness but you were definitely far too needy). Your biggest mistake is not paying attention to your surroundings. You said you were in a Bar and then another Bar. Okay but the in depth questions you were asking I keep picturing you in a College Classroom, College Food Court, College Library.

    The answer is simple. You joke around, banter, and flirt in Bar type environments I mean come on and take advantage of that low social pressure people have to let loose there. You can start groping up on chicks in those venues(with extreme calibration) and if you started groping up some chick in College or whatever you would be like sexually harassing them or something. You simply failed to capitalize on the right frame and still thinking class room talk when you should have been joking around, being lighthearted and just going with the flow. Instead you were like the stick in the mud ruining every girl's fun and this is why they didn't want to talk. They thought you were too pitiful. Sorry it happens and hot women hold us guys up to higher standards so just learn to better calibrate in the environment and I would say you are good to go. All in all the tempo is real low in Bar type environments for the conversations to be more loose and free flowing where you can let loose on what you are going through or what not and the Classroom questions you keep asking is better for more formal environments where touch is less appropriate like College, Church, Library, Work, etc.


    Think about it in a Bar inhibitions are down low on the tempo and therefor chicks are more open to being opened, making out, being groped, etc. Where as they would freak out if you touched them in Public Gatherings like Church, Libraries, Food Markets, and so forth they welcome your touch in Bars, Clubs, Concerts places with a low social pressure atmosphere. So my point is come on man you should have put the moves on them and gone for some action and less talky talky. You need to use Kino in your game otherwise these girls ain't going to think you got any balls. Now I am not saying to put the moves on them in College or you may be arrested just when you are out in these low social pressure enviornments like Bars to put the moves on them because they don't want to talk about their future when they are about to be groped. Come on would a chick want a heavy "What are you going to do with your future?" before you put your hand on her? NO. She wants to be seduced with some sassy fancy crap and you need to remember that you need to to wow them to really get them engaged with some unique crap that they are going to stay engaged and get engaged. Sometimes it is a light touch, sometimes a heavy make out, sometimes they want their hair pulled, sometimes they want to be talked dirty to, sometimes they want to be yelled at, sometimes they want you to argue and you come out on top so they can submit, sometimes they want to get mad so you can calm them down, sometimes they are just crazy and nothing you do can fix it or make it better, sometimes you should just be yourself and not try to touch them but engage them verbally, sometimes verbal fails miserably and kino helps massively, sometimes kino fails miserably and verbal helps massively. It just depends every girl is different and all hot girls are normally a challenge.
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    Default Re: What to do with narcissist bitches

    Exactly!

    Girls don't want to get asked "Job-interview" style questions. Every other guy is asking those same things. Her eyes will glaze over & she'll start planning her exit.

    Besides, if you're lucky enough to get a girl talking about that sort of stuff & you have a "really good conversation", all you'd do is end up in the friend zone anyway.

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