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    ColonelMathus is offline PUA in Training
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    Default professional setting

    alright here's a set i am in.
    she works in another company. she's the daughter of the owner. the company i work with asked them to build a warehouse for us. so it is all highly professional and what not.
    now, i already broke the whole texting barrier in business (instead of formal emails and phone calls, i use instant messaging).
    we had a couple of meetings and i managed to get a few laughs from her in stuff not related to work (note she wasnt being courteous there coz we already bought their services). i dont know how to take it to the next level. dhv accomplished in our meetings.

    it's quite tricky coz our interactions are absolutely professional. tips and advice appreciated.

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    marvilo is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: professional setting

    Get the conversation to a casual level so she won't think you're only interested in her because she is helping you guys out... Make her your FRIEBD not your BUSINESS ASSOCIATE.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: professional setting

    i am able to make the conversation casual, when there's contact. problem is i cant just pick up the phone or start texting her out of the blue.

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    Default Re: professional setting

    bump please. i really wanna know how to proceed from here

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    Default Re: professional setting

    Then tell her you'll text her later and it's not related to work... You're making sound harder than it really is. " hey later tonight I'm going to text you because we don't really talk about anything besides things job related." Bang boom, there it is.
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    Default Re: professional setting

    I'd find a commonality and invite her to an event related to the commonality. Now, your outside of work and can have a more casual demeanor.


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