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Thread: How to pickup a girl you work with or slightly know: The "what".

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    Default How to pickup a girl you work with or slightly know: The "what".

    So here's a very simple way to build attraction with a girl. If you know her already and talk to her occasionally, or if you know her name (as long as you two have met) your in. All you have to do is give her a sh1t eating grin every time you see her while looking straight into her eyes. If she says "what" your in. Don't say anything to her, just keep smiling and making eye contact. Do this every time you see her and she will say "what" every time. Escalate from there after a period of time with Kino and get her number/hang out with her. It's really that easy.

    After thinking about this I've done this with every girl that ever wanted me and any girl I messed around with that I previously knew or slightly knew. The only time I haven't used this technique was when I picked up a girl I just met. I didn't even think about this as a technique because I just naturally do it. It works and gives women a good impression of you because your always smiling. It also makes them smile and feel good every time they see you.

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    Default Re: How to pickup a girl you work with or slightly know: The "what".

    After thinking about this for awhile I realized that I've done this at work or at school exclusively. You have to be able to see the girl on a semi-regular basis and already have positive body language. It works so well that every attractive girl I've worked with or had a class with wanted me and/or I dated. This is PERFECT college game.

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    Default Re: How to pickup a girl you work with or slightly know: The "what".

    So I just picked up a girl doing this yesterday. I had a course with her a few years ago and we talked a little bit. I was walking by a classroom that she was in. We made eye contact and I gave her a shit eaten grin and maintained eye contact. She smiled back and started giggling.

    Lo and behold she randomly showed up in my office yesterday to "invite me" to her going away party. I gave her my phone and she put her number in it. We chatted a bit and I found out her favorite bar is my favorite bar. Later that same day I texted her "I'm heading to (bar name) to have a burger and beer in half an hour. Stumble your way over there." She responded and I picked her up. We had a good time and she payed for everything! I held her hand on the way back to my car then went for the kiss right when we got in my car. She denied it! I've never had a girl deny a kiss after holding her hand. I laughed about it and gave her another big smile.

    I drove her home, pointed at my cheek to which she happily kissed, and she got out. A little later my phone started blowing up with text messages from her. Even though she wouldn't kiss me this ones definitely going to happen!

    Moral of the story? See how easy that was?! Stop making things so complicated with all these bs techniques and routines! If you're confident it just happens.

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    Default Re: How to pickup a girl you work with or slightly know: The "what".

    So simple yet so brilliant! I can just imagine you giving the hugest grin from ear to ear and it makes me laugh.

    I run into the some of the same girls a lot on campus so I'll definitely give it a try. Good stuff!
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    Default Re: How to pickup a girl you work with or slightly know: The "what".

    Yeah I think you really gotta have good inner game for this. If a guy comes here just starting out, I think this approach will make him seem like a psycho even if he already knows the girl. Smiling or laughing to yourself all the time makes u look crazy.

    Just my two cents... I think this is good but a disclaimer would be nice. You also don't mention how you respond, unless you always say 'nothing' every single time. Which is predictable. Again, just saying.
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    Default Re: How to pickup a girl you work with or slightly know: The "what".

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Yeah I think you really gotta have good inner game for this. If a guy comes here just starting out, I think this approach will make him seem like a psycho even if he already knows the girl. Smiling or laughing to yourself all the time makes u look crazy.

    Just my two cents... I think this is good but a disclaimer would be nice. You also don't mention how you respond, unless you always say 'nothing' every single time. Which is predictable. Again, just saying.
    Good points. I'm always smiling to myself and when I see a girl I know, I naturally do this. I've NEVER had a girl think I was a psycho for doing this. Some guys yes, never a woman. They can't help but smile back and they wonder "why" you're looking at them that way.

    They either say "what" in an inquisitive tone or "why are you looking at me like that" in an inquisitive tone. The key is you never answer them directly. I either say nothing and keep smiling when I walk by or I say "hows it going" or start some sort of small talk. I just never give them the reason why I'm smiling at them. It really drives women crazy.

    Women really start to wonder why your so happy all the time. I get comments like "oh no. Direct's put whiskey in his coffee again this morning" and stuff like that. It's fun.

    I've even had women go up to my sister in high school and ask her why I smile so much. These girls didn't even know my sister. They get SUPER curious about you.

    Disclaimer: You have to have good body language and inner game for this. You also need to be a social person. This is really a more advanced technique.

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    Default Re: How to pickup a girl you work with or slightly know: The "what".

    This is a much better write up. Great job. You described the followthrough and how you 'answer' without answering.

    Just keep it mind next time you write something up. Give the start, content and end of the routine. You'd be surprised but that will help out guys ten times more in the long run. Write like you're talking too a total AFC unless it's something more on the advanced side.
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    Default Re: How to pickup a girl you work with or slightly know: The "what".

    Word. I wrote this when I first started coming here on a regular basis. It makes total sense to me and guys that are more advanced would pick up on it real quick, but I can see how an inexperienced guy could REALLY blow up on this one without the added write up.

    Thanks for pointing that out!

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    Default Re: How to pickup a girl you work with or slightly know: The "what".

    No problem man. Your technique is solid and that's what counts the most.
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    Default Re: How to pickup a girl you work with or slightly know: The "what".

    This is solid. I just realized I do this too.
    What I also like to do, when she says "what?" and giggles, is take a small step forward, usually they will look down or side ways. They'll just try to break eye contact in general, sometimes they'll say "STOP IT !" or even hit me. I'll follow their eyes and while doing so go into a routine about what it means when someone looks to the side up or down as they think.
    While I'm doing that they'll just shy away again, I'll throw a compliance test in like sticking my hand out so she would hold it. If she does I'm so in if not I Roll Off.
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