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    Default Major crush on a friend, having drinks with her friday night

    I have a female friend who I have become interested in. I am having drinks with her on friday evening and I really want to move our friendship in a different direction but I need advice on how best to do this.

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    Default Re: Major crush on a friend, having drinks with her friday night

    Take it ...go have a good time.talk about charged topics. E.g. Places you been,how you felt when you were there,people you met,how girls are really sociable etc.keep it short but be looking out for signals once you pay go for a short distance walk and kiss close if possible. Then take her home since you are framing her as special to you.later you guys may hang at yours

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    Default Re: Major crush on a friend, having drinks with her friday night

    The comfort is there, perhaps a little attraction too. My take would be that you'd have to Kino-escalate as much as you possibly can without losing any of that comfort. Also, you want to escalate the conversation, but not as fast as possible. Calibrate to how well she responds. By the end of the night you want to have talked about sex.

    Also: "how girls are really sociable" as HardRock advices... nah, wouldn't mention that. You don't want her to hear: "I like just hanging out with girls because they're sociable". You want her to hear "I like hanging out with YOU because YOU look like a motherfarking sex machine". However... don't say that either!! (Until after plenty of drinks :-)

    Maybe ask her a couple of "things you've always wondered about". How about: "I've always wondered if you liked that guy." or "... if you and that guy did [whatever]". Maybe these have pitfalls too (anyone?). At least it shows her that you see her as a sexual person.

    Also, assume she wants you as badly! Or at least assume she likes sex every now and then. Oh well, you are going out for drinks together... Good luck!!!

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    Default Re: Major crush on a friend, having drinks with her friday night

    Hmm ..
    treading on 'sex' explicitly may kill Tension in moment..Kino may be difficult if sitting down eventhough slight arm brush may suffice depending on proximity

    either ways may tread cautiously..


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