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    Default major fark up last night... too much to drink

    quick backstory..
    went out with some friends last night. one of whom i like, she is a HB6. Anyway, last week i took her out "drifting" in my car (she asked me to), she enjoyed it, i went to drop her off and we ended up chatting in the car for ages before she left. had a brief k close before she left. BUT to be honest it was a rubbish kiss... just because we were both sat in my drift car, its kinda awkward physically in this particular car.

    anyway, this played on my mind all week. and i went out last night and had too much to drink, she was driving so she was totally sober.

    anyway, we danced for a little while until, i started talking about how i felt our last kiss was rubbish, i was very drunk and blubbering like an idiot and spilling my feelings for her, i think we may have briefley kissed, i cant remember.

    anyway i know i made a fool of myself, said some really awkward stupid things.

    i have text her this morning saying
    "oh my god please disregard anything i said last night xxx i was so drunk

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    yeah i think you and X were abit drunk haha at training now killing myself lol xx

    should i keep texting today and try and fix it or set up a date? or leave it for a while?
    i dont wanna become "that guy that keeps texting me"

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    Default Re: major fark up last night... too much to drink

    Don't over cook it. Keep texting just not every 5 minutes and that. I'd try and set up a date within the next few days if I were you or at least put the notion out there.
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    Default Re: major fark up last night... too much to drink

    okay... so i basically text her a total AFC text and said that "i said some stupid things i wish i diddnt, havent made things awkward have i?"

    she responded with "dw about it people say shit when there drunk it happens x"


    im not sure if that is sincere.. do you think ive properly killed it now?


    i started this whole thing out as a total afc virgin and ive made good progress but i just couldn't help but revert to my old ways

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    Default Re: major fark up last night... too much to drink

    I wouldn't have thought so, probably leave it for today contact wise. Pick up tomorrow or the following day but start off with randomness. See how things go from there...
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    Default Re: major fark up last night... too much to drink

    well, i got back to her, chatted a few times as usual, then asked her out on a date, she said no.
    well, ive learned from my mistake, watch how much you drink. lets hope someone else can learn from this.
    does anyone know any good reading material on state control? its something im interested in and im sure it could be very useful.

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    Default Re: major fark up last night... too much to drink

    well, i got back to her, chatted a few times as usual, then asked her out on a date, she said no.
    well, ive learned from my mistake, watch how much you drink. lets hope someone else can learn from this.
    does anyone know any good reading material on state control? its something im interested in and im sure it could be very useful.
    haha, you're problem wasn't so much what you did when you were drunk, but rather how you over-reacted when you texted her saying that you regretted what you may or may not have said while you were drunk, you should have just swept it under the rug and played it cool (then you may have had a chance at recovering) you took a bad situation and made it worse by how you reacted.
    keeping a cool head is probably the hardest thing to learn. it takes lots of time and raw experience to be non-reactive. I go by a simple mantra "when you panic, you lose" its applicable to any situation. keeping a cool head can be difficult especially when feelings are involved.

    you were worried about losing the girl, and she sensed it when you panicked (not when you were drunk)


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