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Thread: Is this even an issue? Short question on being a flirt.

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    Default Is this even an issue? Short question on being a flirt.

    I work as a waiter at a major casino restaurant, & all of the girls that work there are pretty cute. The casino seem to only hire the hottest college girls around for the eye candy. I've always been pretty good with girls growing up & I've been into studying pickup for awhile now, so I figured as I worked I'd fool around, have fun, & tease girls as I meet them.
    I've been doing this for awhile now, just having fun, teasing, practicing Kino, just different techniques but not trying to go any further than friends with any of them. Being 1 of only like 5 guys in the entire casino that works as a waiter helps quite a bit too.

    But yesterday I started training a new girl at work & she told me shes heard about me already & that I'm kind of famous among the food service waitresses. Puzzled, and kinda confused, I asked what my reputation was amongst the girls that work here & she said: "Idk, they all talk about how you have really pretty eyes and a great smile, but how you're a HUGE flirt, & act like a player. Literally within the first hour of being trained they were already asking me if I've worked with you yet & how you're really cool & fun & stuff & I'm like who's Kyle?"

    I guess I have this reputation amongst ALL the cashiers & waitresses in my restaurant & the other restaurants. Is this a bad thing? I don't know how I should feel about this? Is being labled a flirt or having the reputation as a player a bad thing? I want to start trying to take some of these girls to bed.

    Any thoughts and opinions with be greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: Is this even an issue? Short question on being a flirt.

    Sound like a VERY good thing. Its always good when all the girls are talking about you. They are saying good things too. Your in man.

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    Default Re: Is this even an issue? Short question on being a flirt.

    Wow you're basically in with every girl there... Being a flirt is a good thing especially if you got girls talking about you in a positive way. Now the question is; why haven't you been gaming any of them?
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Is this even an issue? Short question on being a flirt.

    Ahh okay, I've never openly had people tell me i act like a player so I was confused. It's weird being known as the biggest flirt in the casino. Lol.
    I haven't been gaming them to actually try to get them to bed because I've always kinda been against dating co-workers. I don't like to crap where I eat you know? & these girls are mostly hb9s with boyfriends & I'm not trying o break anybody up. So it's mostly light, fun, flirting with these girls. & I'm only 18, & a freshman in college. they're mostly 20-23. Lmao.
    But I'm going to try & snatch up this cute blonde I work with. She knows I like her but she's shy & always flakes out on me when I invite her to hangout. She's also really insecure & an introvert which is weird for being pretty. She's against work relationships so maybe thats why. We flirt alot when we see each other but it never turns into anything more. Is there any way I can pull her if we've been just friends at the casino so far?

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    Default Re: Is this even an issue? Short question on being a flirt.

    Actually i had a coworker guy, at a hotel i used to work at, and he would flirt with everyone! Even my own sister.. he had the same reputation as you. He asked me for my number, n i gave it to him..but honestly, when it comes to trying to have sex with a girl, we think "oh no, hes a player, hes just going to use me and then its "on to the next one" yes. Thats why most girls really wont talk to players, unless they just wanna have fun n play around. So, i guess it will be hard to get a girl to take u seriously when you do find the right one. But dont loose hope.. if they are talking good about you, they obviously like you.
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