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Thread: Speed Dating Event Tips?

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    Default Speed Dating Event Tips?

    Has anyone been to a speed dating event? I have one in the next few days and think it would be a good way to use different approach methods. Does anyone have any tips or experience with this?

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    Default Re: Speed Dating Event Tips?

    This should be an ample time for you to work on the basics like
    eye contact, body language, voice tonality, etc. Remain calm, cool, and collected and have fun. Lastly, you should also practice the art of conversation here. Think of the event as one big practice session. If you can do that result will naturally come.

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    Default Re: Speed Dating Event Tips?

    the focus should be on having fun, have some interesting questions pre-planned (not just the usual talk about work and where your from, and how many siblings you have)
    be different from every other guy there. dress well, have a warm friendly smile and maintain good eye contact.

    try to relate your life to hers in some way, if the girl says she's in a family with all brothers, you could relate by saying that your little sister is in the same situation. or if she talks about how she loves cooking, you could tell her a story about how you once burned easy-mac in the micro-wave. be a good listener and it will be easy to come up with a storie that relates to something she tells you about.

    on a side note, getting a good conversation started can sometimes be tricky at speed dating events. have some open ended questions prepared ahead of time. your goal should be to start a smooth-flowing conversation with every woman you talk to.

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    Default Re: Speed Dating Event Tips?

    Hi Mate,

    I have experience speed dating. Every girl I liked also ticked like to me at both events.

    What you need to do, as the other guys said, is be confident, and have fun! Be playful but don't overdo the teasing because you only have three minutes or so with them so you need to find some coomon ground.

    A good rule of thumb is this: After your time together, could she go away and explain to her friends why she likes you BASED ON YOUR PERSONALITY YOU HAVE SHOWN. If she can't explain it to them, she can't explain it to herself, even if she was having fun. If she can't explain it to herself, she is much less likely to tick that she wants to see you again.

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    Default Re: Speed Dating Event Tips?

    Don't put too much pressure on yourself. You will likely have the most social skills of any guy in the room. Get there early and meet everyone you can before the event starts, both the guys and the girls. This shows that you are a fun and social guy that everyone likes.

    Then when you have your few minutes with each woman you can continue the conversation that has already started. You have essentially "pre-opened" her and already started to build attraction.

    Having Fun is the most important thing to remember.


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