Shakedown with Hired Gun incoming
Okay I am going to be stepping back into the arena at one of my most feared venues. Dun dun dun "The Buckle". I know sounds silly right? However I got into the game for getting shut down in this very venue because an HB9 Attendant there shut..me..down..hard . Just ice cold. Got a failed N-close 2 years ago and still had oneitis after that and wrote her a love letter. Gave it to her and a day later said "I'll see you later Laura" she said "Don't you understand? I am not Interested! At all!!" The Buckle guy that worked there had bug eyes like 0_o wha just happened kind of deal. Then I got into The Game after my Church Guy friends couldn't help me because they didn't understand Game either to explain it to me or help me out. So thus my PUA journey was born. Then a little while after I tried N-closing a new Buckle girl and got shut down! But a little less hard that time and she actually started the flirting! Laura never flirted with me or smiled likely because all I did was overqualify, get nervous, qualify more, fail harder, etc. Yeah Church Guys don't understand game because they are not PUA's that's why I come on here cuz you guys know what's up. I just don't talk about game with them anymore just easier that way.
That was just a simple build to bring me to my next question. You guys know my Night Game is stellar and I am out there as a hero at night and sprinkling a little bit of day game here and there but going all out on Day Game next year however....
I'm stepping back into the ring (And I hate to say this but) with a Hired Gun. I thought I had given it the boot but then I think I decided to reboot. Like I said my Night Game is getting solid barely need help there and have a good Gameplan for next year on Day Game don't need much help there but man these Hired Guns (and HB10's) rock my world (well not literally but yes literally) so anyways I think I will do really well on my Day Game and Night Game plan next year but I need help with a HB8 from the Buckle I am going to see in a couple of days (granted she still works there). Left a huge hook last time feel it was a good impression. So my questions are
How should I handle it?
Ways to flirt without being creepy? (I have really creeped The Buckle Chicks out)
I know it sounds silly but this is WHY (well not specially WHY but would be nice to make some progress) I got into The Game to begin with so I don't need help in many areas but some areas I still do and any advice appreciated. I am supposed to go there this Thursday and Friday to buy clothes for my Phase 1 Outer Game project so I would like to knock out two birds with one stone. Remember The Buckle chicks because they are Hired Guns spook easily and I keep creeping them out through love letters, oneitis, clingy behavior, over qualifying, N-closes with no comfort, etc. So I have to handle these differently or get shut down again hard. If I had to learn the hard way well so be it but enlighten me. So it's an incoming shakedown in a few days from now and last saw her my last check 2 weeks ago, I haven't been back in to avoid creeping on her and getting oneitis.
*I have to talk to her (I have been field testing girls I like hate being ignored in the get go when we are not tiring of one another so it is crucial in the early phase to establish rapport and all that jazz)
*I have to flirt (Another field tested theory for Hired Guns or she will be bored and write me off)
*I have to somehow not be too needy or frank in my intent
Any suggestions how to do this would be great but I think FB closing is too low value to me right now as it might get me Friend Zoned as that is my gut feeling with this one. I know this is a tough one but you guys are good at expressing your opinions so anything helps at this point.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.