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    Default IOI or not?

    Not sure if this is the right place for this. If not, mods please move it.


    Anyway, I've been going to a gym to work out for a few weeks now, and one of the girls that works the front desk (who also happens to be a personal trainer) seems to be going out of her way to say hi to me as I enter/leave. Now, I know generally this is not an ioi, but she's been fairly consistently stopping whatever she's doing, or interrupting herself talking to someone else in order to say something to me.

    Is there any solid way to try to move it along and tell if it's a true IOI or just my imagination?

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    Default Re: IOI or not?

    Heh, yes it might be an ioi.

    Can we be sure? No.

    Can you be sure? Yes.
    How? Talk to her.
    About? Anything but more than a hi.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: IOI or not?

    Definitely need to talk to her and see what's up with her.

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    Default Re: IOI or not?

    Probably not the most sound logic, but I assume everything is an ioi. I assume every woman likes me until proven otherwise. I mean how could they not, I'm fucking amazing, but that's besides the point. A woman can step into my face and curse me out, and I'll be like "You guys saw that right? She wants the D! " Go and find out if she likes you by *gasp* talking to her.

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    Default Re: IOI or not?

    Next time she talks to you tell her that you have a sore back. Ask her what stretching exercises will help.

    Now the ball is in her court. If she takes you into the gym and begins to show you the exercise(s) then it's a huge ioi. If she just tells you to go do an exercise and that's it. Then you should treat her as a Hired Gun because that wasn't an IOI she had been giving you the last while. It was just good customer service.

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    Default Re: IOI or not?

    Thanks for all the tips! I've talked to her a few times now. Enough to have learned she likes hockey (which sucks for her since the World Series is on), and she likes horror movies and The Walking Dead. So she's fairly talkative at least.

    Thanks for the idea about stretching Dave. I already stretch after my workout, but I might be able to squeeze something like that in, I think.

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    Default Re: IOI or not?

    Are you flirting with this girl or just looking at her longingly like a Lil B?

    Tease her bro. Usually she'll laugh and you'll flirt some more. She'll shirk her responsibilities to flirt with you, she'll laugh harder, people around you will throw knowing looks in your direction.
    Ask her if she ever dates customers, if she says yes or not yet, get the number set up a date. If she says no or that she has a BF, say "we'll just have to have an affair then"... what time do you get off?

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    Default Re: IOI or not?

    I've done that successfully a few times.

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    Default Re: IOI or not?

    Quote Originally Posted by MiikusMaximus View Post
    Are you flirting with this girl or just looking at her longingly like a Lil B?
    Is there s difference between talking and flirting? I've been talking to her quite a bit, usually during a workout since she walks around a lot.

    Tease her bro. Usually she'll laugh and you'll flirt some more. She'll shirk her responsibilities to flirt with you, she'll laugh harder, people around you will throw knowing looks in your direction.
    Ask her if she ever dates customers, if she says yes or not yet, get the number set up a date. If she says no or that she has a BF, say "we'll just have to have an affair then"... what time do you get off?
    Haven't really done any teasing yet, though I probably need to. Does this method work well even if you have to see this girl repeatedly afterwards if it fails?

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    Default Re: IOI or not?

    Well I talked a bit more to her last night. Threw in some teasing and asked for advice on one of the exercises instead of stretching. Kinda backfired since she didn't do that particular exercise, but it did gain me some valuable info: her brother works there too, at the same times she does.

    How do y'all go about a pick up when her family is around? He seems like a pretty cool guy, but I only talked to him for a couple minutes.


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