Re: Why neediness is such an unattractive trait
Eloquent choice of words there yeah. But to give you the full story back when I was in my very early twenties and late teens I saw the Hooters girls as totally hot and unattainable. My friend worked there and was a pretty cool guy but very average looking. I was so jealous he got to work there and he told me the girls would say he looked cute. I went in one time and all the hot women were a little older than me and seemed you know "high maintenance" like they all seemed like 10's through my rose colored eyes and their assets intimidated me. I was thinking "I can never talk to them" and when they came up I was afraid to strike up a convo.
Originally Posted by afflixion
Then after getting in the game now in my early 30's I went back to Hooters with a friend and they all seemed like little girls to me. I was like " Oh 7, 6, 6, etc." when normally I probably would have thought more highly of them. Even the Bartender serving me seemed too easy to hit on since no one was really around except for the manager and it would have been easy to get her number. But I was immediately disinterested by them being low quality where as before I was too freaked out by them to do anything.
Now I hit on the Ice Cold Stunners in Clubs and Bars and there is some really high quality game there. Due to me hitting on the hottest chicks around it has turned me into bit of an Ice Cold Mack myself and after talking to so many of them I am rather numb and therefore harder to impress. It's interesting to say the least of this discovery and shows what growing up and getting confidence can do for you. The biggest thing was hitting on the hottest chicks I could find in Bars and Clubs really raised the bar for me and makes me feel like I have higher standards now.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.