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    Default DHV vs. QUALIFYING YOURSELF

    Alright we all know that demonstrating high value is a good thing while "Alpha Males" shouldn't qualify themselves to women but should get women to qualify themselves to the guy instead.

    Now the $1 million dollar question: what's the difference between dhv and Qualifying yourself to women? I've recently been thinking about it and I don't fully understand the two. So comment and helps are welcomed
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    Default Re: DHV vs. QUALIFYING YOURSELF

    They are pretty much the same thing, but they change dependent on context and delivery. I'll help you understand with examples

    Let's say you're a doctor
    Qualifying yourself
    Her: My last boyfriend was happened to be this big time salesman
    You: Oh yeah, well I'm a doctor

    Within a response like that, you're qualifying yourself to the girl. You're trying to seek her approval so you can feel as if you've lived up to her expectations.

    dhv
    Her: My last boyfriend happened to be this big time salesman
    You: Salesman are cool! Funny story actually. My last patient was a salesman who came in with blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. *finish story*
    Her: hahaha You have patients? What do you do?
    You: I work in hospital as a doctor

    Essentially you're saying the same things to her. You're telling her that you're a doctor, but in one way your statement comes off as seeking validation while in the other way it's like you're just sharing information about yourself in a non braggy way.

    Now these are some extreme examples, but I'm just trying to help paint a picture in your head. Ask if you have anymore questions.

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    Default Re: DHV vs. QUALIFYING YOURSELF

    Alright thanks. The " seeking validation" was the key word I was looking for. Thanks man
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    Default Re: DHV vs. QUALIFYING YOURSELF

    dhv qualifies you in an indirect manner.
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