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    Default Re: rejection need help

    Avoid movies dates at best.not initially.if she really liked you and gave a genuine excuse you may have hurt her a bit.its not good to wait around locker.but be sure to make up most of it.think kissing.

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    Default Re: rejection need help

    . I asked her to go see a movie but I believe that she was sincerely busy. And I have no trouble approaching her. But I keep getting stuck on two things. One is hooks and the other one is Kino Escalation, whenever I talk to her I always have something to say. But quickly after like 3 minutes I run out of things to say. And today I have been doing Kino Escalation and I was touching her shoulders and stuff. And I was kinda planning on trying to get a kiss close. But I froze up when trying to think of a reason to put my hands on her waist ( going back yo hooks) and we just did small talk until I had to go, at that time I had a excuse to put my hands on her waist Cus it was just for a hug (it was a little longer than before). But I still kept freezing up when it comes to kiss closing. Any tips? (I always make sure that she doesnt think that I'm freezing up and I know for sure that she is interested in me. )
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    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    . I asked her to go see a movie but I believe that she was sincerely busy. And I have no trouble approaching her. But I keep getting stuck on two things. One is hooks and the other one is Kino Escalation, whenever I talk to her I always have something to say. But quickly after like 3 minutes I run out of things to say. And today I have been doing Kino Escalation and I was touching her shoulders and stuff. And I was kinda planning on trying to get a kiss close. But I froze up when trying to think of a reason to put my hands on her waist ( going back yo hooks) and we just did small talk until I had to go, at that time I had a excuse to put my hands on her waist Cus it was just for a hug (it was a little longer than before). But I still kept freezing up when it comes to kiss closing. Any tips? (I always make sure that she doesnt think that I'm freezing up and I know for sure that she is interested in me. )
    Are you asking how to kiss her ?

    I know a lot of guys have routines. I just talk to her so close that it's inevitable we'll kiss. Then, I move I kiss her and she either turns away or doesn't. If you are sure she likes you, the kiss shouldn't be a problem. Just need to be willing to put yourself out there. Remember that every time you see her and don't kiss her, you are moving more into the friend zone

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    Quote Originally Posted by cdharders View Post
    Are you asking how to kiss her ?

    I know a lot of guys have routines. I just talk to her so close that it's inevitable we'll kiss. Then, I move I kiss her and she either turns away or doesn't. If you are sure she likes you, the kiss shouldn't be a problem. Just need to be willing to put yourself out there. Remember that every time you see her and don't kiss her, you are moving more into the friend zone
    Alright. And to really keep up the conversation what should i do. I have tried hooks and it worked for me but i need more.
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    At the end of the day, you want her to do the majority of talking. People's favorite topic is to talk about themselves. Without knowing more of this interaction, I would make an observation to start conversation, make 1 or 2 breaks in rapport, and ask her about herself. Start small (how was your day?) and expand on what she gives you. If she starts not wanting to talk, another break in rapport followed by a less intense question.

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    You may not need much convo/hooks.before you move in make sure your close proximity.stoke her hair if comply definately push ahead...
    Follow with kiss after IOIs.

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    Alright thanks guys, since my last class is right beside her locker, should I just walk out side the class touch her waist and walk around her to begin talking to her so I have Kino in there or would that come off as creepy
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    I fucked up.... I just found out that she was ignoring my texts all along.
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    Default Re: rejection need help

    Well I just texted her this morning at 10 and she didn't reply. But I know someone else who texted her and she replied to him. I fuck up how do I recover from this.
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    Default Re: rejection need help

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    Well I just texted her this morning at 10 and she didn't reply. But I know someone else who texted her and she replied to him. I fark up how do I recover from this.
    Leave it for 2 weeks - talk to other girls. It's tough but only way to clean the slate. Don't think of it as blowing it. Things just didn't go as you wanted

    Good luck bro!


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