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    Default rejection need help

    So yesterday I asked this girl if she wanted to go see a movie (before that I asked her what days she had to play soccer and she said Sunday and maybe Friday) on Friday and I'm pretty sure she thought about it for a while then said maybe she will see, but today now she went up to me (she came to me not me asking her Cus I was busy) and said sorry she checked her sechdule and it said she has soccer practice. What I want to know is if she sincerely had soccer practice or It was just a excuse. I would be happy to give out more info but right now I don't know what you guys need. I'll be really thankful in anyone reply!
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    Default Re: rejection need help

    Honestly if a girl actually has the time to come and tell you personally I'd believe her. Some girls would wait for you to text them and ask if you guys were still meeting up first before they let you down. You can also ask her when she'll be free for y'all to go to the movie.
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    Default Re: rejection need help

    Alright thanks for the info. Usually on Mondays wensdays and Fridays I usually wait for her beside her locker to talk to her after school but tommorow I kinda wanna use this other girl I'm gaming and just walk past her hugging the other girl and Shit to say I don't need you I got other people. Would that be smart?
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    Imho, don't make it seem like you're holding a grudge, if you must go that route give her a friendly gesture and smile. That way she sees you have other options at the same time plus you're not bothered by her rejection, the other girl will already dhv adding to your attraction.
    You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...

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    Default Re: rejection need help

    Okay so this is what went down. I can out of the room cuddling with the the other girl and when I saw the girl that rejected me she was already at her locker looking at the lock. So I am pretty sure she only heard me talking yo the other girl and I also didn't have a chance to smile and wave. That alright?
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    Default Re: rejection need help

    Not waiting at her locker is a great way to not show neediness. Be careful with using the other girl to make her jealous. Jealously plotlines can blow up if not executed well.

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    Ya i think on friday i will just talk to the locker girl again but i will make it look like i just left class late and wasnt waiting
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    Sounds like things are moving along well for you. I like the planning you are doing. Only way to get good is be pragmatic and thoughtful to everything you do.

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    Default Re: rejection need help

    Quote Originally Posted by cdharders View Post
    Sounds like things are moving along well for you. I like the planning you are doing. Only way to get good is be pragmatic and thoughtful to everything you do.
    Thanks man, just like what somebody said before, quick discisions are dangerous ones. I will post a new thread and reply to this one after Friday or when something important happens. Thanks for all the help guys.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    Thanks man, just like what somebody said before, quick discisions are dangerous ones. I will post a new thread and reply to this one after Friday or when something important happens. Thanks for all the help guys.
    Perfect! Keep Fighting the Good Fight! Good Luck!


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