Re: how do you get a girl to notice you, to want to give YOU attention?
How do you get a women's attention without appearing needy?
Originally Posted by andrewkrs27
You visit the right spots. Bars, Clubs, Water Parks, Amusement Parks, Outdoor Malls, Beer Festivals, Pool Parties, Street Game, Holiday Events. That will give you PLENTY of girls to talk to. Those are my favorite spots for picking up chicks. I tried the whole one-off scenarios of The Buckle chicks (3 approaches), Hairstylists (2 targets), Church Girls (10 Approaches), Gym girls (1 Approach/ 2 Targets), Work Chicks (10 Targets/Approaches), but all in all there is just not ENOUGH females to go around at these venues. You pick the right spots and you get the right experience. Not to mention gaming Church Girls, The Buckle/Indoor Mall Chicks, Work Chicks, and Hairstylists is EXTREMELY difficult. I am talking hand over fist bend over backwards level of difficulty. Too much social pressure, angst, fraternization/crossing the line/what's appropriate what's not in those enviorments. I decided to no longer hit on chicks in the Gym, in the Barbor Shop, in Church, in the Indoor Malls, or in Work. People at work think I am hitting on them teasing me about it but I never ask for their number anymore and stopped initiating the chat with them in those venues, it's just too hard and too infrequent to matter.
So the Gym, Work, Barbor Shop, Indoor Malls, Church, Raves are out but the Water Parks, Amusement Parks, Bars, Clubs, Pool Parties, Holiday Events, Outdoor Malls, Street Game, Beer Festivals are so in.The reason I say this is because I have been having so much trouble in those venues getting any headway so I thought..."hey" why not do what is easy? Why do the definition of insanity and expect different results when the Buckle Chicks and Church girls get so easily offended? Not saying I wouldn't talk to them but they HAVE TO APPROACH ME or give me huge ioi's or be of extreme quality for me to do anything. By choosing the right venues you will be not only in a pool of hot chicks to choose from but also be so inundated with girls you will be beside yourself which will make you more Alpha and less AFC since you have so much to choose from.
Without trying to hard?
Go to the top spots I mentioned and practice the methods, routines, etc we discuss on here about approaching girls. Once you have removed the fear of foreign territories and you frequent those target rich locals you will be a regular and get to know people by default. The more you invest in those places the more you familiarize yourself with the people, the places, the things just ups your value exponentially, it's funny I have to actually tell co-workers "I don't date chicks I work with, it's unattractive." It was so funny in fact because girls keep flirting with me and this place is like a meat market but it is just no fun anymore. You stake out the venues I mentioned after getting to know people. You do your rounds open your point people, get in a groove, grab a drink and then hit it hard. You can't hit it hard at Church girls are way too emotional there they will red flag you and say you aren't pre-selected (they did this to me bad). You can't hit it hard like Ghostrider in The Buckle you will creep girls out and creep yourself out. But up in the Club you can hit it hard like a world class charmer without any social pressure. You stake out the venue, you do your rounds, then after you are all warmed up opening your normal point people and other familiar faces you run your game. This makes you try less hard as you are already warmed up talking to people beforehand to warm up, getting a scope of the enviorment, the targets, etc. You scope the targets and move on, then about 11pm for Night Game you hit it. For day game you give it a few hours to settle in before hitting it.
Without being too obvious?
You follow the steps I mentioned and by talking to people beforehand, you mix this in after you run a bunch of Sets to cooldown since you will likely be all worked up. Then after you are done having fun again and making things less obvious you switch locals if no other viable targets. I constantly start at the Club leave at 12:30am and then go bar hopping. You less than obvious because you are incognito talking to people being social as your cover for Sarging like a boss then your targets see you as high value not some needy approval seeking Beta.
How do you keep her eyes on you and get her to want you?
You run good openers, you run good openers, openers are the biggest stumbling block to a Set. Get good at opening and your closing is always easy just follows suit N-close, K-close, etc.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.