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    Default need some advice! is she interested or just making excuses?

    been talking to a girl for a while now. at first she seemed interested in me based on her body language. got her number and now been texting her too for a while.

    i have already asked her at one point to go out. i remember she just nodded at me and said yes. im too sure what that means really...

    so now i texted her again and casually brought the topic again. well not really...i asked her out again. i was direct. so i think she's aware of my intentions here - to take her out on a date.

    but the thing is, she's really busy with school and work and those crazy stuff. she said she "would" if she didnt have class all day that day i invited her to and work the next morning...

    soo is she interested least to say? or just making some dumb excuses because she cant say no directly to me?

    advices would be really appreciated! just need to have an idea on what to do here. whether i back down a little bit and give her space? or be persistent but too aggressive?

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    Default Re: need some advice! is she interested or just making excuses?

    Quote Originally Posted by thaatguy18 View Post
    been talking to a girl for a while now. at first she seemed interested in me based on her body language. got her number and now been texting her too for a while.

    i have already asked her at one point to go out. i remember she just nodded at me and said yes. im too sure what that means really...

    so now i texted her again and casually brought the topic again. well not really...i asked her out again. i was direct. so i think she's aware of my intentions here - to take her out on a date.

    but the thing is, she's really busy with school and work and those crazy stuff. she said she "would" if she didnt have class all day that day i invited her to and work the next morning...

    soo is she interested least to say? or just making some dumb excuses because she cant say no directly to me?

    advices would be really appreciated! just need to have an idea on what to do here. whether i back down a little bit and give her space? or be persistent but too aggressive?
    Hey, welcome to the forum. I used to have the same issue as you. Instead of picking a time and place and see if it fits her schedule, message her "What's your schedule like ?" Now, she'll tell you when she is free. Then, when you suggest meeting, you'll know whether it's her schedule or you that is the problem. My guess is that she really has a busy schedule, so you just need to see when you both are free.

    Does that Help ?

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    Default Re: need some advice! is she interested or just making excuses?

    yes it does. thank you for the advice! i'll for sure keep that in mind for next time i talk to her/text her. hopefully i get the answer then


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