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    Default AA, alcohol or just a stupid excuse?

    Hey, guys!

    I am currently working on my inner game, body and on getting comfort around women and talking to women.

    During the day I see plenty of women, who I think of as hot.

    But when I am out (moderate drinking with friends in clubs and discos) I never feel like the women are hot.

    I think it might be a kind of aa or just a stupid excuse of mine. But if I am not interested in the woman I don't feel to give everything...

    So what do you advise me? I think I will have to trick my inner chump here.

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    Default Re: AA, alcohol or just a stupid excuse?

    You're subconscious aa seems like a gift to me. You say that you never feel that club/bar girls are hot... GREAT! Go open them, they're not HB's, right? So whats to lose?! If nothing else, use them as practice.
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    It maybe a combination of all, id say dial the drinking back for a lil more control then even if they aren't your type or there's very lil attraction, practice your approach on them, hone your game to get over that case of aa.

    Most of all try having fun, I read somewhere a good practice before heading out would be to hype yourself, set goals for the night before you go ie. tell yourself you're going to open five sets no matter what, and stick with that until you hit your goal.

    You can also try practicing your day game as well where the approach is typically different so the experience may be valuable to your overall game.
    You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...

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    @Bimmer: Actually never thought of it like that. Yeah, I think that my subconscious or maybe even conscious keeps the thought "What if something goes on with her, but she's not my type" I migth just think too far in my rAFC-mind

    @D1v1ou$$: I've always tried this. But saying so and actually doing are different things.^^

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    Default Re: AA, alcohol or just a stupid excuse?

    i'm going to say that you have the same problem my brother has, you set the bar too high and then use it as an excuse to not approach women. the solution is simple, approach girls to get to know them rather than to get into there pants, they will appreciate it and you may warm up to some of these girls who "don't quite meet your expectations" once you get to know them.

    talk to girls for entertainment, stop making excuses to not approach, you will learn something new from every girl you talk to no matter what they look like.

    get out there and stop making excuses.

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    Sometimes someone just has to kick your ass! Thank you meteora, I am glad that I am not the only one.

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    Dude, talk to as many girls as you can every day .... I don’t care if they are 80 year old grandmothers .... talk to them, get comfortable around them, learn how to communicate with them .... this is more about being a well rounded, fun guy, who is interesting then getting into hot girl's pants so get out there and talk it up ...... I would also keep an eye on the alcohol .... my rule of thumb for me is no more then 4 7&7's ..... an Alpha male is ALWAYS in control of himself and never lets alcohl dictate how he feels or acts .... Good Luck

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    Tough love is sometimes the best thing one can get from this site
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: AA, alcohol or just a stupid excuse?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tow View Post
    @Bimmer: Actually never thought of it like that. Yeah, I think that my subconscious or maybe even conscious keeps the thought "What if something goes on with her, but she's not my type" I migth just think too far in my rAFC-mind

    @D1v1ou$$: I've always tried this. But saying so and actually doing are different things.^^
    Trust me I feel you there, that liquid courage put on that much needed edge at times and its pretty euphoric. on the flip side of the coin I cant begin to tell you how many times ive blown opportunities due to the excess, I mean in an embarrassing way were I push wayyy too hard and come up empty handed, ever wonder why everything is a good idea when on that sauce? yea, uh, nope not at all. you can do it, remember, accessorize...lol
    You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...

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    Default Re: AA, alcohol or just a stupid excuse?

    Some of the worst ideas in history have been though up by guys who have been drinking too much


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