Okay, so this is my issue (been really frustrated at trying with no results).
Like, I could just go and talk to any group (assuming that I feel good on the day; but this is another topic altogether) having any guys or girls in it - what I mean is approaching them and joining in the conversation and then hanging out with them even if they move to some other location to continue hanging out, from their location at that time. Talking about pubs where there ain't loud music at all.
- Pub setting / anywhere with no loud music -
When I talk to the group, then when I'm wanting to Isolate the girl I like, 9 out of 20 times, she'll be like " i don't wanna leave my friends". And I didn't wanna escalate when I'm in the group (I don't even touch her much - cause then the group might cut me off seeing as I'm too obvious with what's on my mind as in intentions). So, in those times, I ended up just asking for their contact like phone number or Facebook (which I hate, but I consider em goners since 2 out of 20 cases then would actually respond if I do contact em). I haven't really try pick ups before - so by far, I've only tried like say 15 times, and 3 were successful (as in manage to sleep with em).
How do I go about resolving this?
- Club setting with loud music -
Like some place with loud music and with dance floor. More often than not, I see like sometimes some I'd be interested in but since I'm not a good dancer, I often stay away from the dance floor. How do you guys approach a girl you like who's like dancing on the dance floor? *Since I know if I wait, some guy would have approach her to dance with her (making his moves on her while he's at it) and then my chances would be cut down to total zero.
Also, what do you guys think of kissing a girl within minutes of chattin with her? Cause a girl once did this to me, and I thought heck, why not - I should try this with a girl I like next time I spot one.