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    Post When she doesn't give you hooks

    There's a girl I've been talking to, I like her.. she's really cool but she doesn't give me any hooks! Despite how interesting the topic may be, or even strange if I'm trying to bring about a rise.. it has no avail.
    Example..

    Me - I saw this reiki master today, he light fires with his hands!

    Her - woooooah



    Me - I've been training, who knows, maybe I'll light sh1t on fire with my palm and freak everyone out some day.




    Her - cool



    I deliberately tried to give her easy hooks on that last one, instead of trying to try and use a topic to it's best potential..

    Advice guys?

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    Default Re: When she doesn't give you hooks

    Trying too hard, you are making yourself way too available.

    Supply and demand high supply low demand low supply high demand. You are making your time and attention too available to her.

    Look into Cat String Theory and Push Pull
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    Default Re: When she doesn't give you hooks

    I tried to give her back the same frequency of response, so to speak.. and then the conversation gets stale.

    What do?

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    Default Re: When she doesn't give you hooks

    It may take a day or two of just being seen and not heared. If you have shown lots of intrest some disinterest will need time before you can restore balance and regain ground if it is indeed possible
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    Default Re: When she doesn't give you hooks

    I have the same issue.

    Our convos become stale after a few minutes and I don't know if I should continue to hold it up or let it go. Usually I let it go, because convos should be 50/50. I know this girl is a chatterbox because she talks passionately with her best friend about girl stuff all the time.

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    Default Re: When she doesn't give you hooks

    Quote Originally Posted by Aero-el View Post
    I have the same issue.

    Our convos become stale after a few minutes and I don't know if I should continue to hold it up or let it go. Usually I let it go, because convos should be 50/50. I know this girl is a chatterbox because she talks passionately with her best friend about girl stuff all the time.

    Are you talking about texting too or in real life??
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    Default Re: When she doesn't give you hooks

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Are you talking about texting too or in real life??
    Just in real life. We're both practically strangers, though we share mutual friends.


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